https://fsspx.news/en/news/episcopal-consecrations-what-fr-pagliarani-told-members-society-saint-pius-x-59244Excerpt:
". ..Towards those to whom we speak, whoever they may be, and whether they understand us or not, we must always show kindness. When there is no understanding on the other side, when there is not even a willingness to listen to what we have to say and understand our reasons, it is very easy — humanly speaking — to fall into resentment.
Caritas benigna est — “charity is kind”
. We must always remember that if Divine Providence has been merciful enough to give us a little light, to allow us to maintain the Church’s Traditions and to do what is necessary to defend them, it corresponds to an exceptional grace that we do not actually deserve. The awareness of this fact must entirely condition our attitude..."