Wallflower,
Do you agree that Everybody Loves Raymond contains frequent sɛҳuąƖ innuendo and explicit references?
A quick search just produced this which reminds me of how the show makes light of deception and lying, making them out to be funny.
Plot Summary for
"Everybody Loves Raymond" Angry Sex (2004)
Ray plans an evening of sex. But Marie makes Debra lose her temper and she's not in the mood anymore. Ray tries his best to put her back in the mood. Which leads to the best night of sex he's ever had. But when Marie comes over to apologize, Ray lies to them both to make Debra's rage bigger.
Please refer to my first post about lesser evils and taking issue with an episode here and there as opposed to taking issue with every minute of every episode.
Do you know what comedy is? Comedy is based on incongruity, surprise and the unexpected. The reason Ray can do comedy involving the Church without ridiculing the Church is because there is an inconsistency with his own laxity and the views of the Church. Who gets the brunt of the ridicule? Himself. The Church is portrayed as being the Church and HE and his father (mainly) are the ones who are portrayed as being bumbling and not congruent with the Church. They are not portrayed as good guys bucking this tyrant Church, they are portrayed as lax and wrong. His mother and his wife are portrayed as the good ones who have Faith and go to Church or volunteer etc... His humor is funny to a Catholic because it is
self-depreciating. We can all relate to being bumbling and not having all the answers, especially in the NO. That's the context.
You are seriously taking these summaries out of context. Do you know who is portrayed how? Do you know how they end? Do you know how these conflicts are resolved? We could do this with the Bible and countless good literature, take lewd stories out of them and summarize them to be much worse. The point is context. This comedy is based in self-depreciating humor and love of family and finding humor in the common conflicts in daily family life. I can't guarantee every single episode but most of them (considering there are nine years worth) deal with very real and wholesome experiences that even Catholics can relate to.