I also would like to have a sane balanced discussion of the matter.
A few points:
1. How could God, you, or anyone else expect me to operate outside the framework, culture, and way of looking at the world that I was formed in? How am I supposed to magically replace my very BIOS, my Operating system, plus all the software that's been installed on me over the past half-century? That is not reasonable to expect. You're not talking about learning a new trick, but a new way of criticism, a new way of thinking, a new worldview, being Eastern instead of Western, etc. That is not a small change, like learning a new language. Again, I would say that is NOT NATURAL.
2. There is question of what you mean by doing the "Traditional Catholic" thing. Specifically, the more bitter zeal variety, vs. the "keep the Faith" and be holy variety. There are a lot of Trads who can't see the forest for the trees, and I wouldn't be surprised if that led to nothing good -- including giving up on the Traditional Movement.
I would wager you haven't been in the best Traditional Catholic circles, and/or you're disillusioned with what you've seen, having moved beyond the ideals and seen a lot of "how the sausage is made" and discovered the "warts and all" -- hoping that the East isn't as bad. But someday you might become disillusioned with the East, and then heaven help you. Beware the long-game of the devil... he just wants to get you, he doesn't care how...
3. You seem to contrast the Roman Rite as being bitter and denouncing, vs. the East just "keeping the liturgy pristine" and "busy over here staying Catholic". Well guess what? My Traditional Catholic chapel is "just keeping the Faith" as well. Our liturgy is 100% consonant with the Catholic Faith, with no corruptions or Modernism. So what advantage do the Eastern Rites have again?
4. As for where our salvation will ultimately come from -- you are welcome to your opinion, as this is classic "doubtful matter". Anything touching on the Crisis is automatically doubtful and NOT dogmatic.
As God is the author of Nature, and God cannot contradict Himself, I can't imagine a world where we're expected to "change our spots" and become something completely other, in order to restore the Church and/or keep the Faith. God isn't going to require the impossible, or the unnatural.