I won't say that it angers me, but I'm not certain that these people even know what they are doing. These are lay people and they are just going along with times. They are providing their "service." We left the NO church for so many reasons, one of which was a simple matter of Real Presence or symbolic ritual?
The people I know who like to pass out the wafers, by their own admission, are living in mortal sin. I only knew one man who took his role as "extraordinary minister" seriously--he was at confession every Saturday before he "served." I learned a long time ago that most of the people in NO are there for there own personal satisfaction. Nothing else.
I can't tell you how many times I was chastised, yes chastised, for actually asking which side of the aisle I could expect the priest to be offering the Sacrament. I was told on more than one occasion by more than one priest that I shouldn't be concerned about who was "giving me the Eucharist."
What makes me angry, really angry, is that reverent Catholics who DO believe in the Real Presence, who receive kneeling and on the tongue are ostracized and ridiculed BY THE PRIESTS along with the parishioners.
I know in my heart that there are really two churches--it doesn't take much to see it if you look. We left because we couldn't be a part of it any more. It was sorrowful.
Today, I pray often and beg God to have mercy on us all for allowing this to happen in the first place.