Mental gymnastics. It says what it says. Let he who has ears, hear.
This is one problem with Catholics: we like to toss bible verses around without understanding them, especially in a "true Catholic interpretation".
We have ears to hear and eyes to see, but understanding is the key.
You are not beyond learning. Neither am I, and I am OLD.
Back to dating in the resistance.... no dating, no marriage. Go into orders or remain a single holy Catholic, is my suggestion.