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Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #30 on: November 01, 2025, 06:11:02 AM »
Salvation is our #1 job.  Work on that and all is well.

This thread is not about salvation broadly.
It is about dating.

However St. Paul does say women save their souls through childbearing. So there's that.

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #31 on: November 01, 2025, 06:12:06 AM »
Simple solution: don't get married.  Become a religious or stay single and live a good and holy life. Problem solved.
The single life isn’t suitable for everyone. We need people to get married and have families!! As someone earlier said, don’t worry about statistics or the general state of men/wonen. Pray for a holy spouse but also go out and meet people. God helps those who help themselves. 


Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #32 on: November 01, 2025, 06:20:01 AM »
The single life isn’t suitable for everyone. We need people to get married and have families!! As someone earlier said, don’t worry about statistics or the general state of men/wonen. Pray for a holy spouse but also go out and meet people. God helps those who help themselves.

100 percent correct.

Adding to this, I feel like these discussions mesh men and women together. But they are on completely different timelines. Feminism has infected our ranks within the remnant, and it is the most perverse kind.  If there is one thing the feminist-infected-trad mind hates it's drawing these lines and making these distinctions.

Just look at how easy it is to get a conversation going on this web forum by making a single remark which was pretty standard thinking for 2000 years but suddenly you get the middle-aged-unhappy-in-their marriage women getting so annoyed and lambasting you with all kinds of insults.

Spiritual advice is linked so much to our nature. Our nature helps us discern what the will of God is for us in our lives. If we get that wrong, then we give terrible spiritual advice.

Both men and women need to just trust God. But when it comes to making decisions, the advice is very different. Much more time sensitive for women, and more broad for men.

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #33 on: November 01, 2025, 06:25:52 AM »
This thread is not about salvation broadly.
It is about dating.

However St. Paul does say women save their souls through childbearing. So there's that.
Right.
Simple solution: don't get married (the "end" of dating is marriage).
Become a religious or stay single and live a good and holy life. Problem solved.

Your reference to St. Paul:"...if she continue in faith, and love, and sanctification, with sobriety."

It's not the childbearing that will save her...

Re: Dating outside the resistance
« Reply #34 on: November 01, 2025, 06:27:50 AM »
Right.
Simple solution: don't get married (the "end" of dating is marriage).
Become a religious or stay single and live a good and holy life. Problem solved.

Your reference to St. Paul:"...if she continue in faith, and love, and sanctification, with sobriety."

It's not the childbearing that will save her...


That could be said of so many other things also. I feel like you have missed the point I was making. St. Paul said what he said. It is indeed childbearing that saves her. Though ALL our actions have to be done with ALL the theological virtues, and the moral virtues.

But you're gonna do with your life what you want.