Vladimir, I do not believe this issue is something to "blow over" and "let sleeping dogs lie". And I think it is wrong for you to counsel people toward your conclusion here. Here is my opinion though on this matter, and anyone reading may freely disregard it for you all have free will and can take it up with God, just as I will have to.
The issue of the Pope, and thus which chapel to attend, is quite an important issue. There I said it, and I know all the SSPX will shut me up, but as GV would say, "C'est la vie". I would love to defend the true Pope, whoever he may be, for it is done in earnest for God, for truth, and for sanctification of my self as I defend the Church God has revealed to us divinely. September 4th, today, has St. Rosalia and St. Rose of Viterbo as today's saints.
St. Rose of Viterbo has a great entry in the history of saints, and it matches perfectly with the issue Daegus is bringing up. She was only 18 years old when she was taken by Our Lord into His arms. She was a staunch defender and vocal proponent of Pope Innocent IV, the exiled true Pope as Frederick II lay siege on Rome and held it, similar to how Benedict XVI and these other false "popes" have done for the past 50 years. SHE WAS 10 years OLD when she was going to the streets, preaching to all who would hear, that restoration of Rome to the true Sovereign Pontiff was required of ALL CATHOLICS! I'm ashamed at all of you people on this forum that are over 30+ and mock all of the young Catholics here, even under your muttered breathes from home, as if young people are lesser than you, have less "experience", "wisdom", etc... Unbelievable.
Ok, aside complete...back to the point....
Yet if I don't know the Pope, I will just be a home aloner , in a sense. It's part of being Catholic, knowing that the papacy exists and is always true in the sense of being the Vicar of Christ on earth. Benedict XVI is no way , shape , or form, the Vicar of Christ. The striking parallels to the current US president and him being an actual Constitution-serving president (NOT!) are peculiar... is foreshadowing/revealing some truth to our own traditional Catholic plight here??
Slippery slope to dogmatic sedevacantism..but remember. Dogmatic sedevacantism is banned from this forum, doesn't mean its banned in real life or it may not be a correct position to take at some point in the future , eventually perhaps.