I even found some quotes from Saints
Great. I even found some dogmatic decrees, promulgated infallibly by the Roman Pontiffs.
Look, here's one now:
Holy baptism holds the first place among all the sacraments, for it is the gate of the spiritual life; through it we become members of Christ and of the body of the church. Since death came into the world through one person, unless we are born again of water and the spirit, we cannot, as Truth says, enter the kingdom of heaven. The matter of this sacrament is true and natural water, either hot or cold. The form is: I baptize you in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the holy Spirit.
The above is a dogmatic definition of a matter of faith contained in the deposit of faith handed down by the Apostles, uttered by Pope Eugene IV in virtue of his apostolic authority with the intent to bind all Christians to belief (infallible definition, meaning it's completely true in all its parts).
So I guess if you believe that one of your sincere repentant people will be visited by a minister sent by God who will baptize them according to the rite above, then you are not heretical!!
If you believe that it is without matter form or intention, however, you are merely repeating a heresy.
I don't see myself as being wrong because I am simply atating what the Church teaches.
Huh? Inventing new words?