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Offline EcceAgnusDei

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« on: July 11, 2010, 09:54:10 PM »
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  • This is directed for the sedevacantists on here. If there is no CMRI or SSPV around where you are, do you think it is better to go to a traditional mass at a conciliar church or is it better to just not go to mass at all? Where I am now, there is only one traditional mass around but I feel like the attendees are just false NO traditionalists and it can get frustrating. There is a section devoted just to Mother Teresa and Faustina and divine mercy are constantly shoved in my face. What would you all do?

     


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    « Reply #1 on: July 11, 2010, 10:17:06 PM »
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  • Um, it's interesting that you overlook the SSPX completely, but you don't overlook the Indult!

    The SSPX has officially been insulted (once again).

    Don't you have an SSPX chapel in your area?

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    « Reply #2 on: July 11, 2010, 10:17:14 PM »
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  • I don't know where you live and I can't answer for CMRI but I do know that CMRI will often come to you, not always but sometime they do.  You might want to contact them, send them an email, let them know your are interested and they will advise you much better than people here on this forum.  

    I can't say anything about other groups because I have had no experience with them.  God showed me CMRI, so that is where I am.  

    I only know for me, I wouldn't set foot in a NO church no matter how traditional it seems.  

    That is my advice.  
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    « Reply #3 on: July 11, 2010, 10:26:09 PM »
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  • There are attendees at sede masses that are Fox News worshipers.  The attendees don't have anything to do with it.  It's about the principles, the doctrine.  

    You definitely have a problem.  I sometimes worry about being in such a situation myself ( because one of my bad habits is worrying about things that haven't happened yet ).  What happened to the SSPV?  Did you move or something?

    I don't know if I could bring myself to go to an una cuм Mass.  The Pope is infallible when he teaches on faith and morals, and allowing someone to refer to Benedict as the Pope and "servant of God" has an implied rejection of this infallibility. This argument may be more emotional than technical, though.  

    Others, perhaps wiser, would say that so far it's only an opinion that Benedict is not the Pope -- in that the Church has not yet decided officially on the matter -- and that until this decision does arrive, you can attend an una cuм Mass.  I don't know though.  St. Catherine of Siena was sure, during the Great Western Schism, that Urban VI was Pope, and she was right.  I strongly doubt she would have gone to any priest not aligned with Urban VI.  St. Vincent Ferrer, meanwhile, accepted the wrong man as Pope, but there was no sin in his case since he truly believed that Peter de Luna WAS Pope.

    So you are in the position of St. Catherine being asked to go to a mass in communion with Peter de Luna, to go against her convictions.  Actually, your situation is far worse, because Benedict is a heretic, not just a Catholic with a false election.  

    I have softened since last year, but only to the extent that I say it's okay for someone who is not sure of the sede position to go to an una cuм Mass.  For those who are sure, I disagree with CMRI, I think they should never go to an una cuм Mass.  I would just go to a sede Mass when I could, take a long trip once a year or whatever.  But that's just me.  The CMRI priests have more authority and they say otherwise.
    Readers: Please IGNORE all my postings here. I was a recent convert and fell into errors, even heresy for which hopefully my ignorance excuses. These include rejecting the "rhythm method," rejecting the idea of "implicit faith," and being brieflfy quasi-Jansenist. I also posted occasions of sins and links to occasions of sin, not understanding the concept much at the time, so do not follow my links.

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    « Reply #4 on: July 11, 2010, 10:50:41 PM »
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    There are attendees at sede masses that are Fox News worshipers.  The attendees don't have anything to do with it.  It's about the principles, the doctrine.  

    You definitely have a problem.  I sometimes worry about being in such a situation myself ( because one of my bad habits is worrying about things that haven't happened yet ).  What happened to the SSPV?  Did you move or something?

    I don't know if I could bring myself to go to an una cuм Mass.  The Pope is infallible when he teaches on faith and morals, and allowing someone to refer to Benedict as the Pope and "servant of God" has an implied rejection of this infallibility. This argument may be more emotional than technical, though.  

    Others, perhaps wiser, would say that so far it's only an opinion that Benedict is not the Pope -- in that the Church has not yet decided officially on the matter -- and that until this decision does arrive, you can attend an una cuм Mass.  I don't know though.  St. Catherine of Siena was sure, during the Great Western Schism, that Urban VI was Pope, and she was right.  I strongly doubt she would have gone to any priest not aligned with Urban VI.  St. Vincent Ferrer, meanwhile, accepted the wrong man as Pope, but there was no sin in his case since he truly believed that Peter de Luna WAS Pope.

    So you are in the position of St. Catherine being asked to go to a mass in communion with Peter de Luna, to go against her convictions.  Actually, your situation is far worse, because Benedict is a heretic, not just a Catholic with a false election.  

    I have softened since last year, but only to the extent that I say it's okay for someone who is not sure of the sede position to go to an una cuм Mass.  For those who are sure, I disagree with CMRI, I think they should never go to an una cuм Mass.  I would just go to a sede Mass when I could, take a long trip once a year or whatever.  But that's just me.  The CMRI priests have more authority and they say otherwise.


    Where I used to live there was an SSPV Mass about 40 minutes away but I moved about a month ago. Now, the closest sede chapel is 5 hours away. Where I am living now there is a strong "traditional" Catholic population but they are tainted by NO and V2. I've been attending the trad mass since I've been here but I would really like to stop.

    The idea of being a home aloner seems odd to me because I feel like I need spiritual guidance and I'm not sure where to get it. Where would I go to confession if I broke away completely from the church?

    Another important question I have is where to get married. Since there is no sede chapel nearby, I started marriage proceedings with the aforementioned church because I'm not sure how else to do it. Should I just get married at the NO church? I was trying to research if CMRI has a process but many of the websites I saw said that you need to be a parishioner for at least 6 months but again, the bigger problem is that there is no sede church nearby.

    So to sum things up, I'm asking (1) if it is better to just not attend Mass than go to a conciliar church, (2) if I do stop attending, where could I go to confession, (3) where would I get married?

    Raoul, it's funny you said that you've gotten soft because I mentioned that to Michael the other day. You don't seem to be the fighter you used to be.

    Matthew, for one there is no SSPX nearby and I'm not exactly sure what their position is. Doesn't the SSPX still show reverence to the Pope and believes him to be the true Pope? I'm not very familiar with the SSPX so I didn't mean to overlook it and choose the indult instead, I'm just used to the indult and the people that I know in this town all attend it. It's a small town and the Catholic community knows everybody's business so I had to attend the indult to be able to continue living where I am. It's a confusing situation that I can't really go into detail about on here.


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    « Reply #5 on: July 11, 2010, 11:00:37 PM »
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    Raoul, it's funny you said that you've gotten soft because I mentioned that to Michael the other day. You don't seem to be the fighter you used to be.


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    « Reply #6 on: July 11, 2010, 11:03:45 PM »
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  • Quote from: EcceAgnusDei
    This is directed for the sedevacantists on here. If there is no CMRI or SSPV around where you are, do you think it is better to go to a traditional mass at a conciliar church or is it better to just not go to mass at all? Where I am now, there is only one traditional mass around but I feel like the attendees are just false NO traditionalists and it can get frustrating. There is a section devoted just to Mother Teresa and Faustina and divine mercy are constantly shoved in my face. What would you all do?

     


    First of all, you must ascertain whether the priest or priests who say the Mass there are valid.
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    « Reply #7 on: July 11, 2010, 11:49:47 PM »
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  • For many trad catholics they think it is the Mass and the sacraments that matter.  For me it is the faith that matters and the Mass and sacraments must serve the faith.

    Having been an SSPXer for almost 20 years our family has certainly seen the changes, especially in the last 7 years or so...that is, the soft-line approach with N.O. ... a position not tolerated at all when I first attended SSPX.

    Moderator: This is your subjective, vague impression, in ONE SMALL CORNER of the world. Let me tell you that most places, there was no such "sea change" as you describe. If you want to criticize the SSPX, at least pick something true like "They took down all materials related to the Jєωιѕн question from their website in a despicable compromise"

    If you're after the truth, don't make vague accusations. Why not give SPECIFIC EXAMPLES of the SSPX "before" and "after" they went soft? If you won't/can't do this, I am not going to permit your general SLANDER against a holy Catholic organization that is doing great good for souls. More good than the SSPV and CMRI put together.


    From a gradual studying of the faith which lead to question asking, we became a 'thorn in their side" so to speak.  We found we were being given very evasive answers or no answers to a number of very important questions.  This all lead to a great mistrust in these priests.

    Ultimately we came to the definite conclusiton that Ratzinger is a despicable heretic and we could never be in communion with him, so we could no longer go to the SSPX.  And especially after the SSPX recognised the Novus Ordo on an equal level with the Tridentine Mass,

    Moderator:
    That is a bald-faced lie. There's no other way to say it. Your last sentence has no basis in reality, it never happened. You're slandering the SSPX here.


    it made it impossible to attend.   The N.O.  or Latin Mass is obviously now just a choice.   And we also learnt that the SSPX do not celebrate the Mass of St Pius V, but a truncated version of Bugnini...and then it is not even that.

    Moderator:
    And what the heck is a "truncated version of Bugnini"? We use the 1962 Missal, yes, but there is nothing Bugnini or Novus Ordo about it. It's as Tridentine as the missal your chapel uses, I assure you, and has JUST AS MUCH fruit for souls, benefit for one's Faith, etc. They're equals.


    They [SSPX]profess they are in the true church which is headed by Ratzinger....it is all very confusing.

    We do not want to be in the same church as Ratzinger as he professes a different faith to us.

    Hence, unfortunately, we are deprived of the sacraments.

    Moderator:
    At least that explains the gall and vitriol vomited forth in this bitter post of yours. I, on the other hand, am not deprived of the sacraments. The SSPX is really the way to go during this Crisis, but your soul is your own business. To each his own.


    We have no other alternative where we live.

    But we have been shown, and have made contact with priests to whom one can get spiritual direction, through emails, letters or telephones.  They furnish us with good sermons also which is very edifying.

    We have to suffer for want of the sacraments, but didn't the Japanese and Koreans suffer also?  God knows our situation which is not of our making.  But the suffering may burn off some of our Purgatory.  Those responsible for putting we laity in these situations, will be accountable.

    Moderator:
    But the Japanese Catholics didn't thumb their noses up at an SSPX Mass center. They would NEVER have done something so rash and foolish. You know, bringing martyrdom upon yourself usually results in caving in under the tortures -- if God doesn't will your martyrdom, He is not going to give you the graces to undergo it without breaking. This would apply also to self-willed "Home Alone by choice" Catholics. If there's no Traditional Mass in your area, you can count on God to sustain you. If you simply don't like the local SSPX priest -- that's a different story.


    SSPX priests have a tremendous responsibility before God.

    Moderator:

    The Trad world is a small world, so I would have a hard time believing you're anyone other than Cecelia Omlor.

    1. Same first name
    2. From Australia/New Zealand (same place, really)
    3. Sedevacantist
    4. Proud of her deep roots in the Trad world
    5. Personality -- not afraid to speak her mind, shall we say. A bit on the feisty side.


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    « Reply #8 on: July 12, 2010, 12:00:49 AM »
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  •  (1) if it is better to just not attend Mass than go to a conciliar church

    I already answered that with my personal, worthless opinion, which is "Yes."  Not only is there a principle involved, but many if not most Novus Ordo/Indult priests are heretics or in serious error.  I doubt you are strong enough in your faith to withstand the suction.  We should all doubt ourselves since we can all easily "go soft."

    (2) if I do stop attending, where could I go to confession

    I am pretty sure that through much of the history of the Church, Catholics were obligated to confess only once a year, during Easter ( as usual, I welcome correction if I'm wrong ).  To confess once a year to a decent CMRI priest is better, -- again in my opinion -- than to get spiritual guidance from a Novus Ordo priest that is indifferent or worse, one who just wants to get it over with as quickly as possible before he can get back to his gαy crash pad.  Some of these guys will seriously tell you to get your tubes tied, use condoms, etc.  The CMRI priests, whatever my problems with CMRI, actually excel in the confessional, as I'm sure anyone who goes there will attest.

    (3) where would I get married?

    Since this is a problem I'm unlikely to ever face, it's hard to say, but it doesn't sound like CMRI that they would make you attend their churches for six months first.  Especially not if you explain your situation to them.  I'm sure for your wedding you can make the five-hour trip.  I can't imagine a greater blight on a new marriage than being married by a Novus Ordo priest.  That is not a memory worth treasuring.

    EcceAgnusDei said:
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    "It's a small town and the Catholic community knows everybody's business so I had to attend the indult to be able to continue living where I am. It's a confusing situation that I can't really go into detail about on here."


    What is this place, Indult Mayberry?  I've never heard of a place with VII Indult Catholics impressing their way of life on all and sundry.  Like "Oh, you want that promotion at the law firm do you?  Then you had better play ball and go to the Indult, my dear!"  

    Firstly, you were a pagan who didn't  go to church at all for most of your life.  Secondly, you just moved to that town so why would you care what everyone thought?  I'm sure you are used to bucking the tide.  The Vatican II Indult-happy tide, in this case.
    Readers: Please IGNORE all my postings here. I was a recent convert and fell into errors, even heresy for which hopefully my ignorance excuses. These include rejecting the "rhythm method," rejecting the idea of "implicit faith," and being brieflfy quasi-Jansenist. I also posted occasions of sins and links to occasions of sin, not understanding the concept much at the time, so do not follow my links.

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    « Reply #9 on: July 12, 2010, 12:01:21 AM »
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  • Hey, I had one post at exactly nine and another right after at exactly ten.  Spooky!
    Readers: Please IGNORE all my postings here. I was a recent convert and fell into errors, even heresy for which hopefully my ignorance excuses. These include rejecting the "rhythm method," rejecting the idea of "implicit faith," and being brieflfy quasi-Jansenist. I also posted occasions of sins and links to occasions of sin, not understanding the concept much at the time, so do not follow my links.

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    « Reply #10 on: July 12, 2010, 01:00:58 AM »
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  • Angus Dei,
    This may be a very silly answer, but my solution is to move to an area where ther is a valid mass.  I have heard many talks by our CMRI priests   during which they stressed  to put your soul first.  You have to be close to a mass and be able to receive the sacraments.
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    « Reply #11 on: July 12, 2010, 09:43:04 AM »
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  • Raoul, you are hilarious indeed, my man. I totally agree with you...and no offense was intended by the 'going soft' remark..just that it seemed your zealous nature had been slightly subdued as of recent. I am not worried at all as I know you are a triumphant blaster of heresy and you don't let truth slip from your fingers by any stretch of the imagination.

    And ya this town we're in is the total pits. Very pretty mountains, clean air, but rotten food for the soul. We will be taking the advice to follow where a good mass is very seriously. Financial situations currently limit us in movability though for the short time-being.

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    « Reply #12 on: July 12, 2010, 10:16:44 AM »
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    What is this place, Indult Mayberry?  .



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    Ceclia, where is this debate between you and moderator found? what thread? or is this a PM conversation?
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    « Reply #13 on: July 12, 2010, 10:39:19 AM »
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  • The moderator snippets, in red, were placed in the original post by me this morning.

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    « Reply #14 on: July 12, 2010, 11:00:53 AM »
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