Within any group of people, there are bound to be the open, ingenuous, friendly, the closed, suspicious, stuck-up, the outgoing but shallow, the shy but sweet, the control freaks and leeches, the charitable and encouraging. Choose your friends wisely, or quit griping. BTW, have someone secretly video you socializing after mass. View it at your own risk--in private. You might not like what you discover! Time for prayer, right?