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Matto,
Thank you, we are friends here.
You wrote:
Ambrose tells us that we have to believe whatever the Pope says and follow him no matter what he does, and then when he doesn't like what the Pope says or does he declares they are anti-popes instead of believing whatever the Pope says and following them.
The Pope can err is his private statements, letters, and even in sermons. In all of these cases he is not exercising his magisterium, or another way of saying it is that he is not using the power given to the Pope by Jesus Christ to teach, therefore to bind the flock.
When the Pope exercises his office as the Supreme Teacher of Christendom by teaching the universal Church on a matter of Faith and morals, even when the Pope does not exercise his infallibility, all Catholics must give a sincere firm assent to his teaching.
When a Catholic rejects the Pope's non-infallible universal teaching on matters of Faith and morals, they do not by that become a heretic, but it is a serious sin of disobedience. Catholics do not have the liberty to hold positions at odds with the Pope's ordinary magisterium. It is not permissible for a Catholic to just remain silent and not publicly disagree with the Pope, a Catholic is bound under pain of serious sin to believe the Pope.
Regarding your second point: "when he doesn't like what the Pope says or does he declares they are anti-popes instead of believing whatever the Pope says and following them."
This has nothing to do with my likes or dislikes. I never wanted to believe that these men, Paul VI, John Paul II, Benedict XVI, and now Francis have defected from the Faith.
For a long time in my life, I simply resisted, went to the traditional Mass, at that time SSPX and the Ukrainian rite. But, one longs for a complete position, that answers all the questions. I never bought the SSPX line that Catholics can just resist the Pope, not learn from the Pope, open seminaries, chapels and schools all in defiance to the Pope and his bishops, and not accept the laws of the Pope.
i take no pleasure in recognizing the fact of these men's defection from the Faith. This goes beyond any moral certitude I have formed about them based on the evidence.
The strongest argument that these men are not Popes is that they have done things that the Office prevents a Pope from doing. The Pope cannot bind the Church to sin, or to believe heresy or grave errors.
Let me give an example. John Paul II in his universal law in canon 844 allows Catholics to receive Communion from schismatics and heretics with valid orders, and likewise for Non-Catholics to receive from Catholic priests.
This is a break with Catholic teaching. This is an evil law, and such a law cannot come from the Church. St. Peter's successor has the power to bind and loosen the laws of the Church. If John Paul II were Pope, then he would have bound the Church to a heretical and evil law.
If this were true, then the Church would have defected and become unholy, as it would have given heresy and taught Catholics to sin by actively participating in non-Catholic worship to the point of receiving Communion from them. It would have also bound Catholic priests to sin by knowingly administering Holy Communion to non-Catholics.
This law alone proves that John Paul II, who in his pretended power as Pope bound the Universal Church to obey this law, could not have been the Pope.
It is only after a long process of being morally certain that these men have defected, while trying to excuse them, that one should ever make the determination that they are not Popes. The example I gave you above is iron-clad, there is no way out of it.