Why do you guys have to bash FE?
Fisheaters isn't perfect and neither is this place. We are all flawed and sinful human beings that make mistakes.
If anyone had been as upset with me as people have been with KingofSpades on FE, I never would have learned anything about tradition, the TLM, etc. But I love to learn and read more & learn more everyday. I have found the richness of ANYTHING traditional to be astounding and can't believe how much we have lost and discarded.
BUT - I also know how many people were turned of by my abrasiveness and criticisms of the NO when I first found the TLM & tradition.
Lately, I have toned down the rhetoric and focused on showing people WHY I love the TLM & the beauty of the prayers in it. Guess what? I am getting better results.
My attitude when I first found the TLM has pretty much guaranteed my husband will never set foot in one.
Which result do you think I prefer?
No one is saying to compromise the message. Just begin where your audience is coming from and go from there. Be patient and move slowly. So much of traditional thinking and practice is SO VERY different from what comes out of the NO, it is a culture shock and HUGE adjustment. People need time to absorb it, think about it, and internalize it.