Hello! I am newly committed to being here after a long, disastrous foray into fisheaters. I found the site confusing, mean and downright heretical. It had an odd mix of all catholic women are guilty for modern society kind of woman hating traditionalism and then super liberal 'live and let live' thinking about obvious doctrinal issues. Lots of bullying and ganging up on the 'right' kind of profile but not others who were also wrong.
Democratic political thinking about a lot of stuff but then also super traditional about certain topics. I couldn't understand it. There were very nice people on it but most were pretty vicious. Lots of picking and choosing about what articles of faith were to be followed or not.
And then the 'you can't tell me that what I'm doing is not Catholic's kind of thinking you would expect from Catholic answers. I didn't like debating, being an emotional woman, and retreated to a more peaceful section but they hounded even the most innocent topics until you felt that you couldn't say anything positive about women or say that men have problems too without a reminder of 'no, you're all monsters' kind of undertone. Constantly, constantly licking the boots of the male side and saying, 'yes, we're so very horrible'. And, this to Catholic women!
My question is why are they such strange hybrids of tradition and modernism? What do you think about where this heavy undertone of woman hating comes from?
You seem to be a more traditional, kinder forum so I think I will stay here instead. I think I'm going to be banned sooner or later anyway, by the looks of it.