Caraffa,
Many Neo-Caths actually hate the liturgical abuses but fail to do anything (or are held powerless) because out of obedience they keep attending the Masses and their protests are ignored by the liberal authorities. They like Masses by the book, and thus, if they became Trads, they would want the TLM "by the book".
The Neo-Trads, being liberals, prefer the TLM because they are rebels. They want to go against the mainstream to be different, but inside they are liberals. They want to experiment with the TLM, incorporate certain new elements stating that they were used in the past (communion under both kinds, etc) and play around with it, relax and ignore dress codes, play around with the music, etc.
If we really want to make good Trads we should try to convert some of these Neo-Caths over. The Neo-Trads are a lost cause and truly belong with the libs at the puppet masses, but they are too proud and desirous of attention to join them.