Matthew, I apologize for this post being so long. However, my forum (along with my moderating team and my moderating decisions) are being mischaracterized by ServusSpiritusSancti. As such, I strove to keep this message as short as possible, while retaining the pertinent and important facts and quotations from SSS and Vetus Ordo's dispute.
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SSS, please stop mischaracterizing what happened over at Suscipe Domine. You and Vetus were arguing about the nature and education of women. Vetus Ordo took a shot at your preference for Pius XI and his opinions over the opinions of the post-conciliar popes.
Vetus and you then had this exchange:
Believing that women can't pursue university degrees because it's "against their nature," or because such places are unique "cesspools of sin," or thinking that self-employment is a realistic target for most young women, etc., seems to me to be altogether dettached from reality and the contigencies of modern life. This is not mere prudence or a healthy scepticism of modern institutions, it's to live in a world that only exists inside one's mind. We were all born in the 20th century, folks, whether we like it or not. Let's try to make the best we can with it.
Again, that's not a Catholic mindset. We are in this world, not of this world.
Properly speaking, yours is not a Catholic mindset. It's more of a cultic mindset based on fear and self-reclusion.
As a fallen away Catholic, I don't think you have any place to tell me that my mindset is not Catholic.
After that happened, THIS exchange took place:
What a Pope has to say, even if it's not a Dogma, is not merely an "opinion".
That's your own selection of popes. I'm sure you're not that forthcoming with Wojtyla's or Ratzinger's musings, are you?
No, I don't follow their teachings.
I thought that what Popes had to say were not merely opinions!
If a Pope teaches something contrary to Church Dogma we're not required to obey.
Believing that the Church of Rome can fall into heresy is in itself a heresy. Apparently Christ revealed this to the Apostles.
I never said the Catholic Church can fall into heresy. Now you're putting words in my mouth.
Furthermore, it seems rather outrageous that someone who belongs to a heretical church that believes they're already saved and that Christ is not present in the Eucharist would accuse someone of "heresy" just because they don't adhere to the teachings of Vatican II. You obviously don't understand the position of a Traditional Catholic at all.
And the moderators asked you not to attempt to lead people away from the Catholic Faith. Not that you would convince me, of course.
Here, I'm pretty sure Vetus Ordo took a shot against sedevacantism, which you apparently construed as an assault against the Faith. I'm not sure how Vetus here was trying to "lead people away from the Catholic Faith."
It is, however, at this point that Bonaventure, a moderator (who happens to be a sedevacantist), posted this to the two of you:
Gentlemen, if you want to continue this discussion on the Church "failing," take it to PM. No more on this thread.
And yet the two of you, both Vetus and yourself, continued to make posts completely off-topic. And, after Bonaventure told you to take it to PM, you and Vetus had this exchange:
I never said the Catholic Church can fall into heresy. Now you're putting words in my mouth.
The solution being that the Roman Catholic Church is not really the Roman Catholic Church. I know how that one goes.
Furthermore, it seems rather outrageous that someone who belongs to a heretical church that believes they're already saved and that Christ is not present in the Eucharist would accuse someone of "heresy" just because they don't adhere to the teachings of Vatican II. You obviously don't understand the position of a Traditional Catholic at all.
I do understand it, Servum. And I also understand your condescension: it's a defense mechanism.
And the moderators asked you not to attempt to lead people away from the Catholic Faith. Not that you would convince me, of course.
I was commenting on the matter of women's higher education. I'm sure many Catholics, laity and clergy, would agree with me.
Vetus, unfortunately you are stating more heresy and you really don't deserve any further responses. I'll pray that you leave that heretical church you're a member of and return to the One True Religion. In the meantime, quit trying to lead people away from Christ's Church. It's annoying to have someone spewing heresy on a Traditional Catholic forum.
Have a nice day.
Which then led into this post by Bonaventure:
Okay, enough.
None of the moderators, nor the forum owner, want people on this forum to use "logic" to "prove" Catholicism is false. Yet, it appears on topics unrelated to apologetics, ecclesiology, and so on.
Enough. This goes for all users an potential users.
And even after that SECOND warning, you and Vetus CONTINUED TO DERAIL A THREAD. To which Bonaventure posted "Both of you, no more."
Then there was a long exchange between you and Bonaventure, which led into Bonaventure posting this:
I told both of you to stop, to no effect, twice, because this is something way off topic. It's not because I agree with Vetus Ordo and disagree with you, or because I am ignorant of what he's been saying on this and several other forums ever since his fall into heresy.
I know, the forum owner knows, and the other moderators know.
What baffles me is how the entire administrative team of this forum is treated, from all sides, as it were. If a mod asks a user to do something, he is publically questioned and even pressed. If a mod deletes posts that were in violation in forum rules, same thing. Explanations aren't enough, and we have to spell everything out, as if we had to.
Comparing this traditional Catholic forum to Catholic Answers is completely out of line. If you sincerely think this place, a little site for trads of varying stripes, is too much like CAF, so be it.
And then the admonishment from JayneK and your reply was this:
As far as respect for the moderators, as a former moderator, I agree that mods often are not shown the respect that they deserve. But just as you all had the right to not respect Vox's decision to purge Trads, I also have the right not to respect the decision of the moderators here to practically give Vetus Ordo a free pass. If that gets me banned, so be it, but if I'm banned instead of a Protestant whose motive seems to be to attack Traditional Catholicism, then it shows that something isn't right here.
You do not have a right to publicly question the decisions of moderators (which, by the way, you are misrepresenting). You ought to voluntarily leave if you are not prepared to follow the rules here. If you get banned, it will be because you deserve it.
If the Faith is involved in the matter, anyone has the right to question the moderator.
It is also important to note that posts by Vetus Ordo were deleted in the past for expressing error or contempt for Catholicism. One of our mods (tmw89) deleted at least 10 of his posts for such reasons on January 6.
On the reparation point, I am not sure how a digital forum can perform reparations for anything. It is made up by people, but the forum is one's and zero's stored on a platter in some nondescript building.
As you also noted, there is a subforum at SD for registered members titled "Concerns about SD." I'd post a link, but only registered members can see it. We will listen to any concerns you have! We've got five moderators, and we strive to do our best as Catholics.
Also, just for the record, I read through all the "reported posts" on Suscipe Domine, and not a single post of Vetus's was ever reported by you, nor do I not have any PMs from you regarding "bad behavior" of any other posters. Each of our five mods read the posts that are reported and we always discuss them and what actions to take (unless the actions are apparent, in which case the mod does the mod'ing).
ETA: The thread in question is here:
http://www.suscipedomine.com/forum/index.php?topic=689.msg9588#msg9588I don't think CI's forum software permits linking each quote to a certain post, otherwise I'd have each quote link to the particular post.