Hi Nishant,
Wow, lots of words flying around here! How about everyone takes a deep breath and steps back from whatever post/poster is pushing their buttons?
Would you believe, kind sir, that I have stood up for people such as you, and your ability to have "free speech," if you will, but I really have to say now that joining here was a part of a penance for myself.
Part of that penance involves standing up to correct some of the very same things that I myself may have done in the past, and that is bullying others to topics in the Faith, or otherwise being on my high horse over them.
As a woman old enough to be your dear Mother, I will say, Nishant, KNOCK IT OFF. You are now well beyond going after the views of a person and are directly attacking people whom you have never met it seems.
If you continue to keep insults hurling back at people, then does that make you any better than a person that first caused you discomfort or offense?
The devil is working VERY hard to further disrupt all sorts of Catholics, so that they may lose their peace of soul (if they are not careful), and further continue to create strife, division and the like.
Dear friend in Christ, if you are unable to contain your anger while posting on a forum such as this, then how on earth do you propose to win over millions of souls as such a lofty goal? You will fail miserably.
I understand that you are now a free man in terms of not having professed any vows in the seminary, and thus are free to make your way in the world once again. But if you should be considering marriage at all, please, you must learn to reign in your self-aggrandizing goals, and keep the humility of saving your soul first, and then helping to save the soul of your future wife and any children God may send you.
Right now, it seems to be that being in the seminary was not a noble enough goal? This is shocking actually. Do you know the prayer of the Centurion? "Domine non sum dignus...?" He speaks from humility.
"Oh Lord, I am NOT worthy..."
This quality will serve you much better at the moment and for many more to come than by making all other Catholics and Traditional Catholics look bad. When one person sins, it affects the entire Mystical Body of Christ and all the fighting Church Militant.
I have seen many instances of intellectual pride by reading these forums, and it seems gentlemen are more prone to this. It's not a good thing at all. But now I am just seeing a type of wound for general pride.
Someone has tried to verify information, and there is a perceived injustice or slight, or what-not on the part of one or both or several parties. But Nishant? The power not to type is in your fingers.
If you are slinging names around so freely, you will have a miserable time trying to bring others around. Trying to win imperfect and sinful creatures requires our willingness, BUT NOT OUR DOING. It is NOT up to you how God chooses to save people, and to profess to want to save millions of people in India by your personal doing is putting a limit on God, and setting yourself up for a tremendous fall because of human pride.
If you have been sincere in your posts, then let people check their reading comprehension for themselves and any growth or deficiency over the years you have been here, etc. But really ask yourself what your purpose is before posting something. If you are trying to understand and learn, that approach will be different than trying to inform a person of your views, or to share a light joke, etc.
The open hostility now that is coming out from many posters is a bit unsettling, but not surprising. It is Advent after all, and what better time for the devil to stir up trouble than just before Christ comes at Christmas? Same with Lent. The devil works overtime to create havoc before Easter.
Do not feed the beast, Nishant. Calm down, say a Hail Mary, try to make peace, and carry on. I try to learn something from each person that I meet, but I also try to give them something of myself to help them.
You can gain more friends with honey than vinegar. Do not be insincere with flattery and saccharine sweet, but trying to take the higher road can go a long way to keeping the peace. And if you do not think I have no experience with men, please, I assure you that I have been surrounded with them my entire life, and women were highly outnumbered.
With a man there is always one sin that you can see off to bat--pride or anger are the top 2 in my experience. If a man has both visible or easy to the surface? RUN ladies! He will make a very poor husband.
Alright Nishant, have at me.