I didn't listen to the video but long enough to hear her voice and accent. That said, TODAY, there are men who are not the primary providers, they actually are basically living off the woman. The babies are bottle fed. They have one child, maybe, two.
In a trad Catholic family, the man is the sole provider, the woman takes care of the children, the house, some even the homeschooling, and babies are breast fed.
Two totally different scenarios.