Not sure what she's expecting him to do, she needs to get over herself. Having an infant is tough, but it doesn't last forever.
150 years ago people would have just laughed at her, but today because of our culture her whiny "poetic" rants make her 'brave', which in turn causes her to resent her spouse even more over something he doesn't have much control over.
Look, your husband doesn't have boobs with milk, what do you want from him? Quit whining. Women like this should be slapped in the face.