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Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #50 on: Yesterday at 05:40:59 PM »
It took some time for me to realize this, but the idea of women going to higher education is so utterly ridiculous that only boomers could come up with this idiocy. In Europe you always have the option of being a "trainee", i.e. a blue-white collar job where you start earning a bit of money on the first day (everything from simple business office accountant to data entry clerk, and other blue collar stuff, trade school, etc.). You can then "level up" later with certifications, courses and whatnot. After a couple years you can then do a "dual study / work" thing (i.e. nursing courses, etc. - always relevant to your job, not a general "higher education"). Americans probably don't understand this, because they only have this "blue / white collar" split and no third option, I don't know. But here, there's no "requirement" for higher ed.

I started with that at age 15, right out of middle school (I don't have the high school equivalent, didn't matter in the end). I later taught myself programming (using the internet) and I'm very happy I never went to university because all the men coming out of there ended up being fαɢɢօts or in a slave-ish relationship. Higher ed should be MEN ONLY, and even then, only if you actually need it (math, physics, chemistry, "hard stuff"). And always do it remotely, campus and big cities are full of prostitutes.

I think instead of ranting on the absolute state of women, it would be better to just fortune-tell the women (and their fathers) their life trajectory. Watch this: I don't even need to attempt divination or other sins against the first commandment to figure out how "university for women" will pan out, based on what field the woman studies:

- Business & Management: This type of woman aspires to meet a rich guy and do "important" work in a large corporation. By 25, she ends up making PowerPoint presentations 40 hours a week while living the "city Starbucks Tinder lifestyle" in her flat. Never marries / extremely rarely ("don't know if I feel ready for that"). I see these women then again in their late 30s / early 40s still bumbling with their "boyfriends" and "situation-ships". It's sad because they usually still have "some" female attributes, but instead of children, they become "people coaches" as a replacement and the corporation becomes her replacement-family. Also, they become massive hoes or get hooked on depression medication by their late 30s.

- STEM: Woman will drop out after first semester, STEM is 95% male for a reason, you need high amounts of logic, dexterity, willpower and take risks (attributes women don't have). Maybe biology / chemistry still has some women in lower-level jobs. Will continue majoring in English or Spanish, go to parties, end up with a couple of abortions and daddy issues at age 35. Best if she meets her "dream husband", then things usually tend to go better, but very rare, clear "survivorship bias".

- Health & Medicine: Usually nurses, at least somewhat "female" job. But there's a saying "don't date nurses" and it's a saying for a reason, nurses are known to be MASSIVE sluts (partying / weekends, etc.). Usually either become jaded office workers or overworked / burned out.

- Dentists: Potentially the least worst, but her "standards" for her husband will explode. Will never marry a blue-collar worker (or only very late in life because she can't get Mr. Dentist). Will marry very, very late, usually panics at 30 and makes a bad "panic marriage" decision, then retroactively justifies it why she couldn't get Mr. Dentist.

- Law: Women becomes a judge or attorney, disaster ensues when she later gets emotionally swayed by the good looks of the delinquent. There are literally studies on this, if you let women become "judges" or lawmakers or have authority, LORD have mercy on our souls. Women are emotional and that's good for raising children, but it's not good when having to make hard decisions or argue about principles.

- Teaching / Education: Yes Mr. TradCath Father, just send your young pious Catholic daughter right into hell incarnate. Why not just shove her off a cliff too, while you're at it?

- Social Sciences: Will become a master in Freudian Jєωιѕн psychology and explaining people on why ackshually they need to find their inner child self and why racism and institutional whiteness are a big problem. Will also cut her hair, become an "alternative leftist" and "rebel" against her "too strict Catholic" upbringing.

- Arts & Humanities: Will try to get a teaching job and then get pregnant every year so the government pays her cushy job (literally every female teacher is like this). Will live the "Tinder lifestyle" and end up with 5 kids from various fathers and traumatize a lot of young boys in school with her personal issues. If she goes for the "theater / acting", she'll be sold to perform Jєωιѕн plays for pennies.

- Music: Least worst option for women, but has to be actually able to play an instrument. Usually not many women.

- Trades: Will become sterile business corporate accountant, like the MBA-types. Women don't do blue-collar trades, simply because their bodies aren't made for it and because they are naturally averse to risks and actual hard work (which is why any successful startup founders are usually male).

- Public Service: Usually nerd-type reclusive women, but "government clerk women" will never do a better job than any man. I've worked public sector, I know this first-hand.

- Other meme "degree": Lots of women actually do these nonsensical new "degrees" (like "communication science" or "dramaturgy" or "writing"), as if that will ever pay off. They'll study some off-beat unknown thing to just "get the degree", will waste societies time and money and they'll marry late.

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So, given the above: Mr. Catholic father, which spiritual death would you like your daughter to die: "teared-and-feathered" or "hanged-and-drawn"? What would be your option for dinner, Sir?

Maybe I forgot some categories, but in absolutely no scenario / field is there any benefit to society or to the woman and there is absolutely no job that a man couldn't do better. Only a collective detriment to society, inflation of "degree-ism", more taxes (all government jobs now taken up by women), all of it done in the name of boomer / Gen-X egalitarianism.

The problem is that women (everything under 40) think in possibilities, not realities. They see "options" on their Instagram (death to Instagram!) and start to fantasize instead of seeing the reality at Mass right in front of them. And, myself coming towards 30, I'm just too jaded to care about fulfilling the idiotic fantasies of young women. Young women are literally retarded and should have strong fathers to guide them, but fathers are a failure across the board, yes, even Trads.

I'm not sorry to be blunt, that's just how it is. But I mostly blame their boomer fathers who a) aren't helping their daughters, b) do literally nothing to look out for a good husband and think men just drop out of the sky, c) do similarly nothing to push their sons towards success, so that other mens daughters will have some options later, d) think their job is done at 18 and no further guidance required, kids are out of the house, end of story, right. Let it be known that "failing to provide for children" is a mortal sin and "provide" doesn't just mean "food and shelter".

And young "Resistance women" aren't much better, at least they cover their hair in comparison to the SSPX, but I rarely see a woman under 50 that can still dress actually properly - not because they can't do it, but because their parents simply never tell them. I've seen better Resistance mothers with more common sense than their husbands. I sometimes wish I could take a whip to these weak fathers.

If I had a daughter and she couldn't immediately get a husband at 16-18, I'd:

- HOMESCHOOL HER (from age 6 onwards, the biggest problem of Trads is that they don't homeschool even if they can, bad trad women all had in common that they went to public ed, the system will obviously push her towards higher ed, which then kills her soul)
- Get some entry level training (without higher ed), like gardening or sewing or cooking in a restaurant (women nowadays can neither care for plants, pets, sew or cook, yet they demand God grant them a husband that appreciates their Instagram spirituality posts)
- Practice her prayer life and modesty (especially modesty in speech, not just clothing). A soft voice and humble tone really go a long way in this disaster feminist hellscape.
- Look out for older (25 - 35) guys who are at least a bit established in their careers and mentally stable (important). Shouldn't be a bum husband, should be properly redpilled on the Jews (so that children will know whom we fight), should have a plan and not just bumble through life. Marriage is serious business in the long run and both have to be serious to make it work. Lots of young people nowadays simply aren't serious about life (men bumble around jobless, women bumble around until 35, then panic)
- Try to get her close to the sacraments physically, there were some women at the daily SSPX monastery Mass, so at least they were trying.

Yes, yes, God "can" protect a woman going through public ed, of course he "can". But "thou shalt not tempt God", remember that.
This was excellent! Thank you for writing this.

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Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #51 on: Yesterday at 05:48:46 PM »
If I had a daughter and she couldn't immediately get a husband at 16-18, I'd:

- HOMESCHOOL HER (from age 6 onwards, the biggest problem of Trads is that they don't homeschool even if they can, bad trad women all had in common that they went to public ed, the system will obviously push her towards higher ed, which then kills her soul)
- Get some entry level training (without higher ed), like gardening or sewing or cooking in a restaurant (women nowadays can neither care for plants, pets, sew or cook, yet they demand God grant them a husband that appreciates their Instagram spirituality posts)
- Practice her prayer life and modesty (especially modesty in speech, not just clothing). A soft voice and humble tone really go a long way in this disaster feminist hellscape.
- Look out for older (25 - 35) guys who are at least a bit established in their careers and mentally stable (important). Shouldn't be a bum husband, should be properly redpilled on the Jews (so that children will know whom we fight), should have a plan and not just bumble through life. Marriage is serious business in the long run and both have to be serious to make it work. Lots of young people nowadays simply aren't serious about life (men bumble around jobless, women bumble around until 35, then panic)
- Try to get her close to the sacraments physically, there were some women at the daily SSPX monastery Mass, so at least they were trying.


So if your 16-18 year old can't instantly find a husband, you're going to go back in time and homeschool her from age 6?

You don't even make sense here.

My girls are all homeschooled and they all have the entire set of domestic skills (playing instruments, singing, writing intelligent prose, knowing the Faith well, cooking, baking, gardening, child care, sewing, crochet, crafting, abstinence from Social Media, feminine bearing, wearing only dresses/skirts, etc.) They acquire all that while they're still girls. The question is, what to do while they're older? While they're waiting for God to send a man? They shouldn't go on a journey across the country to pursue men at various chapels -- that's the man's job.

No one in this thread addressed the topic of women attending (relatively conservative) local colleges as a day-student, WITH A FREE RIDE. Maybe if the father makes good money, you don't qualify for much. But I can't relate to that. Our kids get approved for the max Pell grants, since we're poor.
It also matters which field you're studying. A couple of my girls are good at math (so they could study accounting, programming, or some such. Again, FOR FREE) But a couple of my girls are more -- typical shall we say. Their path will be different.
So many careers are a bad idea. Nursing would be for females (well-aligned with nature, evil influence from co-workers) what the military is for males. Both are according to male or female nature, but the co-workers do the devil's work when it comes to influence and temptation.
Education would be about the worst, or anything "social". That's where the Woke stuff lives.

There has to be an alternative for unmarried single ladies, something equivalent to "trades" for men.

I think we agree about most of the topic, but your perspective is a bit too simplistic and insufficiently nuanced.



Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #53 on: Yesterday at 06:28:18 PM »

There has to be an alternative for unmarried single ladies, something equivalent to "trades" for men.



There's a distinction between umarried single ladies before 25/30 and those after.

Once they have past those ages, then they can pursue something because their prime years have gone.

Re: Women regretting college
« Reply #54 on: Yesterday at 06:34:25 PM »
The kind of man who finds a woman attractive between 18 and 25, and is not afraid to say it is the kind of man who is going to take his obligations to marriage seriously.

The kind of man who convinces himself that women after that age are somehow attractive, is a weak minded man, who will not be an impressive husband at all. Rather like your weak animal in the herd than your prize bull. He is weak, because he is listening to all the gaslighting of society, that this is what he should settle for. But also weak because its not natural. And weak because he clearly understands nothing about female psychology and development.