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I think one of the biggest problems is simply housing and cost of living + jobs. Housing market is an absolute ponzi especially in my country. It's unbelievable how much prices have gone up in the last few years.

AI tells me my region has gone up about 25% per year, with the Median price being about 1 million. So I can expect the median to be over 1.25 mil next year...

Statistics and AI may be your downfall, tread carefully. 

I grew up in a trailer park, my childhood would've been great, I would've had few complaints (about cleanliness, our neighbors) if my family made any attempt to make it enjoyable. If I had siblings, they would've made it a lot better. Being a poor child is fun, I'm not saying strive for the trailer park, but if you're married according to the Bible, I see no reason to be cautious to have kids. Where there's a will there's a way, and that is only possible through God's providence. I saw a man who got his house for $18, he was auctioning on a house when the foreclosure company went bankrupt, and that was all he had to pay legally. I have faith if any two people decided to have a family, God sees the artificial difficulty in this world, something like that can happen. 

It was the liberal French Catholics in the 1800s who were for pragmatics, who shamed the pious Catholics for breeding like rabbits, and they had nice homes with stability. 

It can get a lot worse than this, we need to stop putting faith in our tiktok-guided system which can change completely in the next 60 seconds, and put our trust in God, have children. 

I already know women don't care about money, if you're a man and you don't know, now you do. Women care about feeling safe first and foremost. If you can make sure she is genuinely safe, you will earn money for your family eventually by doing what is right. If you fall into despair, deny great offers and pick up an addiction, like 99% of men in similar positions, you will not be rewarded. Abstinence and faith is the only way to go.

God will always provide. 

I think one of the biggest problems is simply housing and cost of living + jobs. Housing market is an absolute ponzi especially in my country. It's unbelievable how much prices have gone up in the last few years.

AI tells me my region has gone up about 25% per year, with the Median price being about 1 million. So I can expect the median to be over 1.25 mil next year...

This is true in my area as well but what is mystifying to me is how so many Mexicans are buying the homes for sale in in my neighborhood. They're not cheap either, usually in the 300k range, which means at least 30k down plus high interest, homeowners insurance and high property taxes. Furthermore, once they move in there are 2-3 new cars in the driveway, parties all throughout the summer. I don't know how they can afford it as these people haven't even set foot in a college classroom. One owns a landscaping business, another I believe is a trucker. They appear to be living the American dream, unlike so many unmarried young White people with colossal student loan debt, still living at home or following some hedonistic lifestyle.