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I think all Trad women out there can relate to how disgusted they feel with how weak and effeminate men are today. 

If you can understand this ladies, then understand how for men, they TOO feel disgusted by the lack of femininity in women. Including trad women. They respond with anger usually, because most of them maybe can't communicate as well what's wrong. So the way to attract men is therefore to do the opposite and be MORE feminine not less. Being at home, respecting your father, always being deferential, loving, kind,diligent in chores, these are all qualities which signal to men that you will be a reliable wife and mother of his children.Going off to college or uni, objectively, whether you were forced or not communicates the total opposite. You may get by with fluttering your eyelids, but something will always be off in the mind of the man, even if he can't explain it. He will always feel ill at ease. Because nature is nature. And God wants us all to respect that. 

I think all Trad women out there can relate to how disgusted they feel with how weak and effeminate men are today.

If you can understand this ladies, then understand how for men, they TOO feel disgusted by the lack of femininity in women. Including trad women. They respond with anger usually, because most of them maybe can't communicate as well what's wrong. So the way to attract men is therefore to do the opposite and be MORE feminine not less. Being at home, respecting your father, always being deferential, loving, kind,diligent in chores, these are all qualities which signal to men that you will be a reliable wife and mother of his children.Going off to college or uni, objectively, whether you were forced or not communicates the total opposite. You may get by with fluttering your eyelids, but something will always be off in the mind of the man, even if he can't explain it. He will always feel ill at ease. Because nature is nature. And God wants us all to respect that.

One overlooked feminine quality in modern times is being slim, most girls today are not slim, even most men are overweight, Statistics in the west are very bad.

I went to college then on to graduate school. It’s a good thing in my case because I couldn’t have supported myself. Living at home was not an option.  
The young ladies do have to consider what they’ll do if they find themselves unmarried and their parents deceased. 
Of course, if there are better options, like you have a vocation or you know you are called to marriage and children, then spend your time pursuing that. 
It’s ridiculous to go to college just to fill the time and come out with a Mickey Mouse degree and come out $60,000 in debt.  
I came out owing $0. I worked my through because I took 15 credits as a high school senior at community college. I used that to get a decent paying job and worked my way through. My parents paid the first term tuition after which I was on my own. I got several grants for my Masters’ degrees and did them piecemeal by taking night and summer courses while teaching.
This was quite a long time ago. I doubt the same would be possible today.
Several people have mentioned Bp. Williamson. He knew I’d gone to college, then university, but had come out more conservative than when I entered!  All the liberal nonsense and the professors who spouted it drove me in the opposite direction!  He once told me I was “the rare exception.”  
That being said, I’m at this very moment wearing a house dress with [gulp] short sleeves! My not so attractive elbows are showing! 💪🏼💪🏼