I think all Trad women out there can relate to how disgusted they feel with how weak and effeminate men are today.
If you can understand this ladies, then understand how for men, they TOO feel disgusted by the lack of femininity in women. Including trad women. They respond with anger usually, because most of them maybe can't communicate as well what's wrong. So the way to attract men is therefore to do the opposite and be MORE feminine not less. Being at home, respecting your father, always being deferential, loving, kind,diligent in chores, these are all qualities which signal to men that you will be a reliable wife and mother of his children.Going off to college or uni, objectively, whether you were forced or not communicates the total opposite. You may get by with fluttering your eyelids, but something will always be off in the mind of the man, even if he can't explain it. He will always feel ill at ease. Because nature is nature. And God wants us all to respect that.