Some comments on this topic from Fr. Chazal.
https://www.facebook.com/reel/1620956465824969
Yea interesting, though he says that "he does not tell women not to college". He's wrong. He should. Two things making him say that: he's french and most of the French are so insufferably narcissistic and proud that their women all think they are st. Joan of Arc. They all let their women go to university. So he is working within that context (of being french and having family there). Second is that his parents met at university, as he says. So he can't come out so strongly. (He can if he really wants to but doesn't). Priests tend to be a little naive on these points. They are right to not emphasize fussy criteria but then seem not all that interested in making sure resistance faithful marry other resistance faithful. They also tend to not really see the human effects that college has on an otherwise pure girl.
But here's a deeper thought following from that. We seem to have so much trad ecunemism among the resistance faithful, that I would struggle to find many among us who can even describe what the resistance is suppose to be. It' s a crises of identity. When is the last time you heard a man or woman unmarried say they wanted to marry within the resistance? Never. Because most think they can just go out into the the broader trad landscape and meet someone. For a man that would work easier, because he can just lay down the the law within his house, but a woman is meant to follow her man. It just wouldnt work if she was staying at home while the husband went off to indult. or potentially invalid Thuc line nonsense.
So this indifferentism towards the combat seeps into our mindset when it comes to marriage, and from there onto preparation for marriage.