To clarify that point, SpiritusSanctus, I meant to stand up for The Faith IN college. I did not state that clearly.
I hate college, and true, people should not "put off" getting married. All I'm saying is that we need to find the best school we can because not everyone finds the right mate or not at 18.
My friend is a Teacher - she stayed at home to home school and is happy. Yet, she will be able to get a job, PT or FT as needed, if her husband dies, gets sick, etc., and when the children are grown. Why? To eat. Otherwise, well, we do accept our crosses from God, but, He has a plan for all of us.
We should not pigeon-hole every women into one mold. That is all I am saying.