Author Topic: Woman's perspective on being single in your 30's (Read 11312 times)

Belloc · « **Reply #5 on:** June 25, 2010, 10:56:39 AM »

Quote from: Telesphorus

Women who are over 30 should not expect to marry men their own age. They usually have that chance when they are younger, and they pass it up by rejecting many men. Why should a man who has worked hard marry a premenopausal woman if he can choose to marry a younger woman?

know a fellow that just married in late Fall at the age of 45 to a mid-30's woman

Belloc · « **Reply #6 on:** June 25, 2010, 10:59:32 AM »

Quote from: Alexandria

Forgive me ladies of CathInfo, but I've come to the conclusion in my senior years that women are fools.

If you're single, count your blessings. Believe me.

is not marriage a blessing? and children? is it not a holy state of life?

many women are like R braineders, not logical-that said, though media has made women into weepy, whiny Oprah watchers too much-much more immature than traditional cultures and once upon a time in the USA

spouse of Jesus · « **Reply #7 on:** June 25, 2010, 04:20:52 PM »

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Hormonal birth control plays a bit part in this failure to "pick" a good mate. I first read about it from Dr. Lionel Tiger in one of his books, the Decline of Males

Inspite of all things that modernists say, you can't really do what you want and decide whether or not you like their consiquences. Being a woman means that the way you are created has to cost you something whether you want it or not.
You can't really shout "that's not fair! why me? why can't I behave like men etc." even if the society hears you, your body won't hear. It will take it's revenge.
Even a planned parenthod expert like the one in our uni had to admit that hormonal bith controls have so many side effects that their use is wise only in the presence of real problems (like poverty, unablility to raise a child etc.) not for those who simply "don't want another" they should look for other means.
At last let us admit that our bodies are patriarchal even if our minds are (heaven forbid) feministic.
If anybody hates childbearing here are other options :
1- Stay a virgin (and suffer temptations, loneliness etc.)
2-use the pill (and have the side effects)
3-go for an abortions (and suffer the consequences in your body and soul)
Seeing the list makes me think that though childbrearing is very hard other alternatives are even harder!

PartyIsOver221 · « **Reply #8 on:** June 28, 2010, 06:09:28 AM »

Interesting thread and posts. I will say that the OP's article author sounds like a total ditz, immature woman with a pseudo-intellect and arrogance only matched by an NO apologist with a divine mercy pendant hanging around their neck.

These type of woman make me sick and give a bad name to all other women who are active in their Faith, trying to do Gods will, and are always seeking the truth rather than feeling their way through life and 'dating'. Don't get me started on the guys who enable this behavior or sleeze around thus creating Ms. Unstable-emotional-please marry-me-Im-a-breeder-or-about-to-go-infertile.
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spouse of Jesus · « **Reply #9 on:** June 28, 2010, 06:43:37 AM »

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If anybody hates childbearing here are other options :
1- Stay a virgin (and suffer temptations, loneliness etc.)
2-use the pill (and have the side effects)
3-go for an abortions (and suffer the consequences in your body and soul)
Seeing the list makes me think that though childbrearing is very hard other alternatives are even harder!

wait. Maybe feminists already know this and it is why some of them think about some 4th option: something like sodomy or child molestion. to both have their cake and eat it too.