Yes, because your explanation that "it's complicated" as to your dealing with girls before you were married ignores the fact that you were being "bad" enough to transgress Catholic morals, do you understand?
I understand, but you misunderstood what I was saying was "complicated." I was referring to the reasons for leaving the Church, not in finding girls, or a mate. I'd already found one, as far as I was concerned; she was in the process of conversion already, and moving forward. Leaving the Church is what I'm ashamed of, yes, but it wasn't to go find girls.
Here's the point s2rea: If I'd been looking to fool around with girls, I would have had a lot more "success" so to speak, than if I hadn't always been looking for a wife.
That's a fair assessment, and more than understandable. The point is you deal with the issues so negatively, and you seem so preoccupied with how bad all trad girls are, that you may have missed out on finding a spouse. You characteristically avoided commenting on Matthew's post on finding his spouse, and if you did, I doubt you'd have anything positive to say. Be happy.
I looked, and some of your first posts show you to be a different character. You need to try to have that attitude again. Not so gloomy. I think then, you will have better chances of encountering a good woman. Just my thoughts.
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