I don't see Blessed Mary being disobedient to St. Joseph's directions before they were married.
women put on a facade before they're married, and once the marriage occurs, their true wicked nature is revealed. The evidence is in the high occurrence of divorce in these latter days, and the man being robbed of almost everything he owns.
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1. I don't remember st. Joseph
telling the Blessed Mother to do anything before they were married.
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2. Men put on a facade, too, and, once married, their true nature comes out. Would a sane woman marry a man if she knows he will abuse her? No.
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3. It seems to me men frequently divorce to "trade in for a newer model". Hence the term "mid life crisis". This instance is solely the fault of the man.
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4. I have not seen that the "man is robbed of almost everything he owns". I have seen negotiations and splitting of assets, no matter whose fault the divorce is.
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What it boils down to is that Satan is everywhere and will attack any time.
This is the reason for the highest divorce rate of all time.
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We must always pray and be on guard. We must love and support one another, especially in marriage, understanding one another's faults and still loving the person.
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Most importantly we must remember that God takes care of all of us, even when we fall to satan, as long as we pick ourselves up, have remorse, and try again.