This man is wrong saying "nowhere in the Bible does it teach 'women love your husbands'". In reality, Titus 2:4 teaches women to love their husbands. It says those exact words. With an exception of this aforementioned error, he's basically right about everything else he says.
Again, if a woman is not obedient to her prospective husband in signing a prenuptial agreement and avoiding a state marriage license, then she doesn't truly love him, and she will continue to be disobedient to him after marriage. Indeed, a woman's love for man is defined by her obedience to him.