Author Topic: wife rejects natural family planning (Read 31032 times)

Capt McQuigg · « **Reply #165 on:** August 03, 2013, 02:21:41 PM »

Gregg is just giving Gooch a hard time now and confusing him.

Matto · « **Reply #166 on:** August 03, 2013, 04:09:55 PM »

Quote from: gooch

but if I do give in then for sure I save my marriage, but at what cost..my soul?

TCat · « **Reply #167 on:** August 05, 2013, 02:21:00 PM »

I don't have experience of this topic BUT this entire conversation is proof that devout Catholics ought only to marry other devout Catholics, otherwise the inevietable problems happen, especially with one side trying to maintain their Catholic identity regarding conjugical relations, something Catholics are very strict on for our own good. The modern world corrupts people with the notions of his wife, just shows that faith needs to be rock solid in both. If she would not convert I would not bother with her if that was me.

Ursus · « **Reply #168 on:** August 07, 2013, 11:41:48 PM »

Quote from: gooch

Quote from: ggreg

Why would she? She has an IUD she is hardly going to worry about masturbation and you are not with her 24x7.

And finally Gooch, if she's not going to leave you then why post in the first place? Stop kidding yourself. When a woman throws the word divorce around it means she's thought about it.

Best of luck, I have a weekend of stuff to do.

it has nothing to do with the emotional support for a 4th child, she's feeling run down and tired, but if I do give in then for sure I save my marriage, but at what cost..my soul? as for her not leaving this is what I feel, she's threatened but I don't think she'll pull the trigger, but if I do nothing she will continue to be miserable which I don't want, this is the pickle I'm in

I do think this is a good topic and a personal trouble that we can all hopefully learn from.

If your wife was sick, would you leave her? Of course not. It's a similar situation with a crisis of faith.

Listen to her, love her, encourage to undo the problem BUT don't be forceful and overbearing. You don't want her to pull back more. Yes, what she's doing is wrong.

Your soul is not in danger if you're intimate with her so get that out of your head.

Don't push her away or deny her affection. Fulfill your role as a husband in all respects.

Christopher67 · « **Reply #169 on:** August 07, 2013, 11:54:13 PM »

Was her intention the same on your wedding day?