Author Topic: wife rejects natural family planning (Read 31154 times)

Tiffany · « **Reply #160 on:** August 03, 2013, 06:20:08 AM »

Ggreg is a liberal and likes to devalue those who follow Catholic teaching.

ggreg · « **Reply #161 on:** August 03, 2013, 06:26:23 AM »

Yes, I am saying handle her differently to the way you have been. Because the way you have been handling her lead to her essentially not trusting in you to provide the emotional support for a fourth child. Let's face it, with the spacing you had, she was only going to have 1 more anyway, worst case 2 before the menopause.

Why did she get the IUD fitted? Deep down what were HER reasons.

Moreover, I doubt you are as in tune with what she is doing and thinking as you'd like to think, or you would not be in this pickle in the first place. Women are famous for being two faced and cold about these things. They can compartmentalise very well and then switch from night to day. So she might not be cheating with a flesh and blood person but do you really think she has gone without any relief for the last 18 months? You are a 40 year old guy and know how the world turns.

Why would she? She has an IUD she is hardly going to worry about masturbation and you are not with her 24x7.

And finally Gooch, if she's not going to leave you then why post in the first place? Stop kidding yourself. When a woman throws the word divorce around it means she's thought about it.

Best of luck, I have a weekend of stuff to do.

Tiffany · « **Reply #162 on:** August 03, 2013, 06:29:53 AM »

Quote from: ggreg

Yes, I am saying handle her differently to the way you have been. Because the way you have been handling her lead to her essentially not trusting in you to provide the emotional support for a fourth child. Let's face it, with the spacing you had, she was only going to have 1 more anyway, worst case 2 before the menopause.

Why did she get the IUD fitted?

Moreover, I doubt you are as in tune with what she is doing and thinking as you'd like to think, or you would not be in this pickle in the first place. Women are famous for being two faced and cold about these things. They can compartmentalise very well and then switch from night to day. So she might not be cheating with a flesh and blood person but do you really think she has gone without any relief for the last 18 months? You are a 40 year old guy and know how the world turns.

Why would she? She has an IUD she is hardly going to worry about masturbation and you are not with her 24x7.

And finally Gooch, if she's not going to leave you then why post in the first place? Stop kidding yourself. When a woman throws the word divorce around it means she's thought about it.

Best of luck, I have a weekend of stuff to do.

Ggreg you are worse than crazy women trying to meddle and put thoughts into someone's head.

ggreg · « **Reply #163 on:** August 03, 2013, 06:33:02 AM »

It happened that a Fox caught its tail in a trap, and in struggling to release himself lost all of it but the stump. At first he was ashamed to show himself among his fellow foxes. But at last he determined to put a bolder face upon his misfortune, and summoned all the foxes to a general meeting to consider a proposal which he had to place before them. When they had assembled together the Fox proposed that they should all do away with their tails. He pointed out how inconvenient a tail was when
they were pursued by their enemies, the dogs; how much it was in the way when they desired to sit down and hold a friendly conversation with one another. He failed to see any advantage in carrying about such a useless encuмbrance.

"That is all very well," said one of the older foxes; "but I do not think you would have recommended us to dispense with our chief ornament if you had not happened to lose it yourself." :wink:

Conspiracy_Factist · « **Reply #164 on:** August 03, 2013, 12:03:25 PM »

Quote from: ggreg

Yes, I am saying handle her differently to the way you have been. Because the way you have been handling her lead to her essentially not trusting in you to provide the emotional support for a fourth child. Let's face it, with the spacing you had, she was only going to have 1 more anyway, worst case 2 before the menopause.

Why did she get the IUD fitted? Deep down what were HER reasons.

Moreover, I doubt you are as in tune with what she is doing and thinking as you'd like to think, or you would not be in this pickle in the first place. Women are famous for being two faced and cold about these things. They can compartmentalise very well and then switch from night to day. So she might not be cheating with a flesh and blood person but do you really think she has gone without any relief for the last 18 months? You are a 40 year old guy and know how the world turns.

Why would she? She has an IUD she is hardly going to worry about masturbation and you are not with her 24x7.

And finally Gooch, if she's not going to leave you then why post in the first place? Stop kidding yourself. When a woman throws the word divorce around it means she's thought about it.

Best of luck, I have a weekend of stuff to do.

it has nothing to do with the emotional support for a 4th child, she's feeling run down and tired, but if I do give in then for sure I save my marriage, but at what cost..my soul? as for her not leaving this is what I feel, she's threatened but I don't think she'll pull the trigger, but if I do nothing she will continue to be miserable which I don't want, this is the pickle I'm in