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« Reply #105 on: August 02, 2013, 12:04:54 PM »
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    Please see the big picture and know that the devil's goal here is to split you up.  Your priority must be your soul and the soul of your wife.  Even if she has the IUD removed she may still divorce you because of the real issue--control.  While you are the head of the family, in your heavy-handedness, you haven't loved her as Christ loves the Church.  You rule her with an iron rod instead of with tender mercy.  



    His wife has an IUD, threatening divorce because he won't go along with a mortals sin,  and he is being accused of ruling her with an iron rod and not loving her?
    Zeitun you claim to be traditional and not a feminist but this is right from them.  

    ETA:  to be more polite :)


    Are you married?
    I am not married. It doesn't take being married to recognize the feminist influenced pop marriage advice.


    Tiffany,

    By your own admission you know very little about the Faith and you lack politeness.

    Would you like me to go through this entire forum and post all your quasi-feminist statements?  

    And my "feminist-influenced pop marriage advice" comes from Fr. Pfeiffer who has been ministering to my family for a while.  So perhaps I should quit listening to him and start listening to you?

    No Tiffany, a divorced woman doesn't know the first thing about marriage so be quiet please.



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    « Reply #106 on: August 02, 2013, 12:07:42 PM »
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    The best solution is the one that is no longer on the table and that is - do not marry a non-Trad Catholic girl.  



    Great Captain.  I am sure that is great advice for every NON-Trad man when he gets married.  All men should marry Trad-Girls, just in case they want to convert later.

    The OP unfortunately was not a Catholic when he married his wife and missed your memo.

    Had he known he would convert 12 years later though, this would have been valuable advice.

    Now can we get back to the problem of the OP, Gooch?


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    « Reply #107 on: August 02, 2013, 12:13:18 PM »
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    Please see the big picture and know that the devil's goal here is to split you up.  Your priority must be your soul and the soul of your wife.  Even if she has the IUD removed she may still divorce you because of the real issue--control.  While you are the head of the family, in your heavy-handedness, you haven't loved her as Christ loves the Church.  You rule her with an iron rod instead of with tender mercy.  



    His wife has an IUD, threatening divorce because he won't go along with a mortals sin,  and he is being accused of ruling her with an iron rod and not loving her?
    Zeitun you claim to be traditional and not a feminist but this is right from them.  

    ETA:  to be more polite :)


    Are you married?
    I am not married. It doesn't take being married to recognize the feminist influenced pop marriage advice.


    Tiffany,

    By your own admission you know very little about the Faith and you lack politeness.

    Would you like me to go through this entire forum and post all your quasi-feminist statements?  

    And my "feminist-influenced pop marriage advice" comes from Fr. Pfeiffer who has been ministering to my family for a while.  So perhaps I should quit listening to him and start listening to you?

    No Tiffany, a divorced woman doesn't know the first thing about marriage so be quiet please.



    And that my friends is why 'the resistance' will never survive and thrive.  It is made up of perfectionists, pedants, prigs and purists who will never be able to reach a consensus on anything.  A house divided against itself and all that good stuff.

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    « Reply #108 on: August 02, 2013, 12:14:58 PM »
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    The best solution is the one that is no longer on the table and that is - do not marry a non-Trad Catholic girl.  



    Great Captain.  I am sure that is great advice for every NON-Trad man when he gets married.  All men should marry Trad-Girls, just in case they want to convert later.

    The OP unfortunately was not a Catholic when he married his wife and missed your memo.

    Had he known he would convert 12 years later though, this would have been valuable advice.

    Now can we get back to the problem of the OP, Gooch?


    That's just it, Greg.  It's the greatest advice out there.  

    And it's also why Vatican II was such a disaster.  Many novus ordo girls out there would be great Trad Catholic girls if the Pope didn't do away with Catholicism and embrace conciliarism.  

    I tell my sons that all the time.  Marry a Trad girl.  

    Some non-Trad girls may convert, that is, if they do not possess a rancid soul.  

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    « Reply #109 on: August 02, 2013, 12:46:28 PM »
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  • So, Gooch has a major moral dilemma in his family because he married a girl who is nonchalant and sees herself as the ultimate creator by using birth control.  That's where she is morally and it's a state of mortal sin.  

    Gooch is stuck with this.  Gooch has screwed the pooch!  In a manner of speaking.    

    So, what's Gooch to do now?  

    I say follow the advice I gave earlier.  Sanctify himself with prayer, sacrifice, assisting at the Traditional Catholic Mass ONLY and bring his children with him.  Sanctify himself and then sanctify the children.  

    It's a process and it may take months.  

    Gooch will have to pray the Rosary daily with intentions for his wife and her conversion and for the children that they may embrace fully the Traditional Catholic faith.  

    Gooch will need to refrain from all immoral practices, giving up all porn, lust, and even limit his intake of TV.  

    Gooch will need to go to a Traditional Catholic priest for a General Confession.  This will take much prayer and meditation on Gooch's part and then he will have to have the courage to go into the confessional and spill the beans entirely.

    Gooch will need to be patient with his wife but he will also have to spell it out for her that what she is doing is repulsive from a secular point of view but absolute death of the soul in the supernatural realm.  He will have to revisit this conversation several times.  If his wife divorces him over this, then she probably possesses a rancid soul.  

    Gooch should also start to purchase plaster statues of Catholic saints, in particular Our Lady, have them blessed by a priest and then display them in prominent spots in the home.  Consecrate the home to the Sacred Heart.  

    There should be a crucifix in every room (except the bathroom).  

    Gooch has to take a stand and make a change.  Change is good if it's in the direction of embracing the Traditional Catholic faith.  

    When a guy marries a girl who is openly using birth control, he probably has a lot of problems in addition to the wife.  So Gooch will have to single out these problems and conquer them one after the other.  

    It's even possible that Gooch, by asking for advice on this forum, may not even be the intended beneficiary of this advice.  The blessings may be reserved for one of his children or one of his grandchildren.  

    The blessing may even be for the child his wife gives birth to after she gets rid of that absolutely soul-killing and rancid practice of birth control.  

    I wish Gooch all the luck in the world and may God bless him.



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    « Reply #110 on: August 02, 2013, 12:48:13 PM »
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    Please see the big picture and know that the devil's goal here is to split you up.  Your priority must be your soul and the soul of your wife.  Even if she has the IUD removed she may still divorce you because of the real issue--control.  While you are the head of the family, in your heavy-handedness, you haven't loved her as Christ loves the Church.  You rule her with an iron rod instead of with tender mercy.  



    His wife has an IUD, threatening divorce because he won't go along with a mortals sin,  and he is being accused of ruling her with an iron rod and not loving her?
    Zeitun you claim to be traditional and not a feminist but this is right from them.  

    ETA:  to be more polite :)


    Are you married?
    I am not married. It doesn't take being married to recognize the feminist influenced pop marriage advice.


    Tiffany,

    By your own admission you know very little about the Faith and you lack politeness.

    Would you like me to go through this entire forum and post all your quasi-feminist statements?  

    And my "feminist-influenced pop marriage advice" comes from Fr. Pfeiffer who has been ministering to my family for a while.  So perhaps I should quit listening to him and start listening to you?

    No Tiffany, a divorced woman doesn't know the first thing about marriage so be quiet please.



    Zeutin I'm not getting into a ___ contest with someone on the internet. It's a public board, if you want to repost my posts, you are free to. I try to reject feminism and try to especially encourage young women towards  traditional values when I interact with them.  

    Again a person doesn't need to be married to recognize feminism.

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    « Reply #111 on: August 02, 2013, 12:48:30 PM »
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    I have a 12 year old autistic child, who also seemed 'normal' as a baby, so I have read quite a bit yes.  


    And you're still flag waving for vaccines?


    and the fact that autism has increased at hundreds of percent in the last 30 years ought to tell any addle brained person that there's something WRONG with the vaccines

    It might be one of many other factors.  Not least the widespread use of the contraceptive pill and hormones in the drinking water.  Additives in food.

    And that is assuming that there is any statistically significant rise at all.

    http://www.asatonline.org/about_autism/ontherise

    I'm not waving the flag for vaccines.  Just for calm and rational thinking and not assuming there is a conspiracy boogie man around every corner.

    I can't see that the NWO can both want to abort handicapped children while also, at the same time, want to make perfectly healthy children deliberated handicapped.  That seems counter-productive if you want to build a godless masonic utopia.


    Let's address your so-called "other factors" quickly.

    If it's "in the drinking water," why are children that are nursing that are not consuming tap water at all (in my sister's case) totally normal until they get the shot?

    If it's "additives in foods" then why are these babies that are drinking goat's milk if they're not breastfed getting this same thing after vaccination?

    Both of the mothers I know were breastfeeding. So that wasn't the cause of their problems.

    You can make all kinds of other excuses, but the fact is, they're so afraid of people finding out about the threat of vaccines... to keep people in the dark about it, that they had to make a SEPARATE COURT to deal with the nasty reactions, and barely anyone gets compensated. If they were dealt with in a normal court, these pharms would be BROKE!
    Matthew 5:37

    But let your speech be yea, yea: no, no: and that which is over and above these, is of evil.

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    « Reply #112 on: August 02, 2013, 12:51:57 PM »
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    And by the way, I wouldn't give the MMR jab to my children not because I question its connection with autism but simply because I don't think Measles, Mumps or German Measles (Rubella) are particularly dangerous and doing 3 inoculations at once does seem like a money saving exercise.

    But, if my wife REALLY wanted to give them inoculations, then I would seek out the most ethical and least risky way of doing it, and take some minor risks for the sake of keeping her happy and feeling like what she thinks actually matters.  She gave birth to them after all.

    I would research it on the internet and discuss it with her in bed.  Get her input and go for that option.  That is what successful married couples do.

    In the end what do the "risks" matter anyway?  Why are so called Traditional Catholics so afraid of autism or vaccines causing some minor risk of death or other problems?  My son is great.  Love him to bits.  He cannot commit a mortal sin, is assured of salvation, has lots of younger brothers and sisters to look after him when I've gone.  My other children might all disappoint me and lose their souls, but he cannot.

    I thought Trads were supposed to welcome the crosses God sends.   :confused1:

    Why for the sake of a very slight reduction of risk (even if you buy the whole MMR connection, the chances are less than 1%), would you drive a wedge between yourself and your wife and thereby risk your marriage and your entire family's eternal souls?

    That's just short sighted.


    So knowing that mercury is poisonous and giving children shots, because we're "supposed to accept crosses that God sends?" A TOTALLY PREVENTABLE THING? Just don't get the shot? Is a virtuous act to POISON your child? "Because we should accept the crosses God sends?" That's warped.

    I'm sure if these parents with autism on this board had KNOWN about these things BEFORE the shots, they would NEVER have given them.

    There are fetal stem cells in many of these shots, which ALONE is against our religion. THE END does not justify THE MEANS.
    Matthew 5:37

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    « Reply #113 on: August 02, 2013, 12:53:34 PM »
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  • My advice is discuss with a priest.As for NFP, I am not married but very  much against NFP. It's not right.The providence of God will determine how many children a married couple have.The talk of charts and like is not of God.

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    « Reply #114 on: August 02, 2013, 12:56:22 PM »
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  • My family is pretty much convinced that the only reason my son is not autistic is because  his doctor signed off on the last rounds of vaccination he needed to start school. As it is, he has symptoms of a high-functioning Aspie. I am not sure which is scarier, the vaccination or the diseases they prevent.

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    « Reply #115 on: August 02, 2013, 01:09:59 PM »
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    Zeutin I'm not getting into a ___ contest with someone on the internet. It's a public board, if you want to repost my posts, you are free to. I try to reject feminism and try to especially encourage young women towards  traditional values when I interact with them.  

    Again a person doesn't need to be married to recognize feminism.


    Tiffany,

    You've not been shy about posting details of your disordered life.  Perhaps you should take Our Lord's advice and not judge as the hypocrites do.  It's certainly not the womanly thing to do to accuse others of feminism without first examining your own conscience.

    God bless!!!!  :cheers:


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    « Reply #116 on: August 02, 2013, 01:33:02 PM »
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    And by the way, I wouldn't give the MMR jab to my children not because I question its connection with autism but simply because I don't think Measles, Mumps or German Measles (Rubella) are particularly dangerous and doing 3 inoculations at once does seem like a money saving exercise.

    But, if my wife REALLY wanted to give them inoculations, then I would seek out the most ethical and least risky way of doing it, and take some minor risks for the sake of keeping her happy and feeling like what she thinks actually matters.  She gave birth to them after all.

    I would research it on the internet and discuss it with her in bed.  Get her input and go for that option.  That is what successful married couples do.

    In the end what do the "risks" matter anyway?  Why are so called Traditional Catholics so afraid of autism or vaccines causing some minor risk of death or other problems?  My son is great.  Love him to bits.  He cannot commit a mortal sin, is assured of salvation, has lots of younger brothers and sisters to look after him when I've gone.  My other children might all disappoint me and lose their souls, but he cannot.

    I thought Trads were supposed to welcome the crosses God sends.   :confused1:

    Why for the sake of a very slight reduction of risk (even if you buy the whole MMR connection, the chances are less than 1%), would you drive a wedge between yourself and your wife and thereby risk your marriage and your entire family's eternal souls?

    That's just short sighted.


    So knowing that mercury is poisonous and giving children shots, because we're "supposed to accept crosses that God sends?" A TOTALLY PREVENTABLE THING? Just don't get the shot? Is a virtuous act to POISON your child? "Because we should accept the crosses God sends?" That's warped.

    I'm sure if these parents with autism on this board had KNOWN about these things BEFORE the shots, they would NEVER have given them.

    There are fetal stem cells in many of these shots, which ALONE is against our religion. THE END does not justify THE MEANS.


    There are not fetal stem cells in many of the shots you ignoramus.  How could that possibly be?  You think they liquidize babies and make shots out of them?  Cells injected into people would be attacked by your immune system.  

    Some of the vaccines use fetal stem cell lines, from many many years ago.  i.e. Cells that have been grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, before any vaccines are tested on them.

    Yes, originally those cells came from an aborted baby but given that they already exist and the lines exist and the damage has been done and the baby died decades ago the Church has stated that it is OK to have these inoculations.

    If you found out that your grandfather took a cutting of a rare and valuable imported tree, trespassed on someone's land in 1901 to do it and that man called the police and had him arrested for trespass and theft, would you go and cut down the 100 year old tree that the cutting grew from because good cannot come from evil acts?

    In some way would you be in possession of a stolen rare tree?

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    « Reply #117 on: August 02, 2013, 01:36:31 PM »
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  • http://www.immunizationinfo.org/issues/vaccine-components/human-fetal-links-some-vaccines

    Of the many lies told by anti-vaccination advocates, this is one of the worst, because it hits on a real moral issue. However, anyone with a modicuм of training in biology will tell you that it is impossible for vaccines (or any other injected medicine) to contain human tissue. The reason is simple: if you are injected with anything containing tissue from another person, your body will immediately recognize it as an invader and begin attacking it. This immune response is often quite radical and can easily lead to death! This is why blood from a donor to a recipient must be carefully matched before the recipient can receive it. Thus, there is no human tissue of any kind in vaccines. Unfortunately, the anti-vaccination movement (and even some naive pro- life groups) will try to convince the uninformed that vaccines contain tissue from aborted babies and that abortions must be continually done to supply this tissue to the "evil" drug companies. This is, of course, a bald-faced lie. Unfortunately, this lie is particularly evil, in that it targets a person's morally correct view that abortion is murder.

    For any lie to be successful, there must be a grain of truth in it. This lie is no exception. There is a tangential connection between some vaccines and abortion. The Hepatitis A vaccine, the MMR vaccine, and the chicken pox vaccine all contain viruses (weakened or inactivated) that were grown in human cells. A virus must be given a medium in which to propagate. Many vaccines use viruses that can propagate in several kinds of mammal cells, but some viruses are so specific that they can only propagate in human cells. The viruses used in the above-listed vaccines are that specific. Thus, they must be grown in human cells.

    Where do the vaccine companies get the cells for these vaccines? They get them from companies like Coriell Cell Repositories, 403 Haddon Avenu, Camden, New Jersey 08103, 800-752-3805. This company has many cell lines, which are cultures of self-perpetuating cells. Each culture of cells is continually reproducing, making more cells. Those cells are sold to researchers, drug companies, and other medical technology firms. The specific cell lines used in vaccines are the MRC-5 and WI-38 cell lines1, and they have been supplying medical research of all types for more than 35 years. Where do these cell lines come from? That's where the grain of truth in this lie comes from. Both of these cell lines were cultured from cells taken from two abortions, one (MRC-5) that was performed in September,19662 and one (WI-38) that was performed in July, 19623.

    Now that you have learned the facts, we can discuss the moral issues involved. Is it immoral to use these cell lines to make vaccines? The answer is definitely not. You might think that the cell lines are somehow "tainted" because they come from abortions; however, think about it for a moment. Abortion is murder. A person who claims to be a physician purposefully kills an innocent, unprotected person. That is evil, and there is no doubt about it. However, let's consider another murder, shall we? Let's suppose one of your loved ones was shot in a robbery attempt. You rush your loved one to the hospital, but it is too late. Your loved one dies. This is another murder, and it is just as evil.

    Suppose that the doctors rush in and tell you that there is a young boy in the next room who needs a heart immediately, or he will die. The doctors have analyzed your loved one's blood and found that your loved one is a perfect match for the dying boy. Would you donate your loved one's heart to the boy? I certainly would. It would be a tragedy that my loved one was murdered, but at least this would be a "silver lining" in that dark cloud. At least my loved one's death would mean that a young boy could live.

    The cells that were taken from the two aborted babies more than 35 years ago are much like my loved one's heart. Two innocent babies were killed. However, they were able to donate something that has been used not only to make vaccines, but in many medical research projects over the years. Thus, these cells have been saving millions of lives for almost two generations! Although the babies were clearly murdered, the fact that their cells have been saving lives is at least a silver lining in the dark cloud of their tragic murder.

    It is important to note that Federal law is quite specific in the matter of donated fetal tissue. The law does not allow for an abortion to be performed for the purpose of donating tissue, and the law even explicitly states that the abortion procedure cannot be changed in order to collect the tissue4. It also prohibits the baby's family or the doctor from profiting from the donation5. Thus, these cells were truly donated, just as any organ might be donated. If a person is an organ donor and he or she is murdered, it is not immoral for you to use those organs. Once again, at least something good will come out of the murder if those organs are used.

    Now that you know the facts, you can see why I consider this lie so devious. Anti-vaccination advocates play on a person's proper moral indignation about abortion, claiming that if a person gets vaccinated, he or she is supporting the abortion industry. Of course, nothing could be further from the truth. Whether or not you get vaccinated, the same number of abortions will be performed, as abortions are not necessary to make new vaccines. In addition, you are actually dishonoring the memories of those two precious babies if you refuse vaccination, because you are refusing the one good thing that has come from their murder. At the same time, you are putting your life and the lives of your loved ones in jeopardy by refusing one of the greatest protections that medicine has ever developed! How could anyone call himself pro-life if he dishonors the memory of those who have been murdered while risking the lives of those he loves?

    Interestingly enough, a June 9, 2005 statement from the Pontifical Academy for Life (the Vatican's official voice in the area of abortion/right-to-life) comes to essentially the same conclusion. Even though some organizations have mischaracterized the docuмent as condemning the use of such vaccines6, the docuмent, in fact, says quite the opposite. It says that when an alternative vaccine which has no connection whatsoever to abortion is available, parents should use it. There is no question that this is the moral thing to do. In addition, when there is no alternative available, parents should object by demonstration, etc. so as to force manufactures to come up with an alternative.

    However, as for actually using the vaccines that have no alternatives, the docuмent clearly says that parents can do so in order to protect their children and the community. The English translation of the docuмent (originally written in Italian) says, "As regards the vaccines without an alternative, the need to contest so that others may be prepared must be reaffirmed, as should be the lawfulness of using the former in the meantime insomuch as is necessary in order to avoid a serious risk not only for one's own children but also, and perhaps more specifically, for the health conditions of the population as a whole - especially for pregnant women."7 Note what this official Roman Catholic docuмent says. It says that parents should CONTEST the vaccines so as to force the manufactures to find new ways to make them, but UNTIL THAT HAPPENS, parents can still use the vaccines that have no alternative, because it will allow them to avoid serious risk to their children, and more importantly, to the population as a whole. The moral good done by the vaccine, then, outweighs any moral evil when it comes to actually USING the vaccine. The statement clearly says the MAKING of the vaccine is bad, but the USE of it is not. In fact, the docuмent specifically mentions rubella as something that should be vaccinated against, even though there is no alternative vaccine - "Moreover, we find, in such a case, a proportional reason, in order to accept the use of these vaccines in the presence of the danger of favouring the spread of the pathological agent, due to the lack of vaccination of children. This is particularly true in the case of vaccination against German measles."7

    Because some organizations have tried to mischaracterize this statement, the Catholic News Service (CNS) produced an article that quotes Msgr. Jacques Suaudeau, a medical doctor and official at the Pontifical Academy for Life, as saying, "If the health of the child or of the whole population [is at risk], the parents should accept having their kid be vaccinated if there is no alternative." 8 Because some organizations clearly do not like the Roman Catholic church officially saying that the use of these vaccines is morally acceptable, they have asked the Pontifical Academy for Life to change its statement. However, CNS reports that Msgr. Jacques Suaudeau said the docuмent "could not be changed" because it accurately reflected church teaching.8 Despite what you might read, then, even the Vatican supports the use of vaccines that have a tangential relationship to abortion, as long as no alternative vaccines are available.

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    « Reply #118 on: August 02, 2013, 01:46:38 PM »
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  • Ive read this whole thread.  Some of you have been working feverishly to derail it.  Now, we are talking about organic food and vaccinations.  ggreg, your posts are very well put, and you have very good advice.  

    My misguided zeal (im a convert also)  caused much friction in my marriage and it  caused a divorce.  I became a Catholic in 1961.  After that the church immediately started changing.  I overreacted and felt like I had to continually fight for the faith.  My husband went Novus Ordo.  I look back over the years, and think of how I could have reacted differently to many situations.  I could write a book on the subject.

    Believe me, divorce puts an end to your family and any goals you could have had for your children becoming good catholics.

    Ggreg  is who you should listen to, gooch.  I, like others here, would suggest you get counseling from a TRADITIONAL priest only.  He will be able to guide you on how to treat your wife, and what is morally acceptible.    Stay away from the "p r e s b y t e r s " .

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    And by the way, I wouldn't give the MMR jab to my children not because I question its connection with autism but simply because I don't think Measles, Mumps or German Measles (Rubella) are particularly dangerous and doing 3 inoculations at once does seem like a money saving exercise.

    But, if my wife REALLY wanted to give them inoculations, then I would seek out the most ethical and least risky way of doing it, and take some minor risks for the sake of keeping her happy and feeling like what she thinks actually matters.  She gave birth to them after all.

    I would research it on the internet and discuss it with her in bed.  Get her input and go for that option.  That is what successful married couples do.

    In the end what do the "risks" matter anyway?  Why are so called Traditional Catholics so afraid of autism or vaccines causing some minor risk of death or other problems?  My son is great.  Love him to bits.  He cannot commit a mortal sin, is assured of salvation, has lots of younger brothers and sisters to look after him when I've gone.  My other children might all disappoint me and lose their souls, but he cannot.

    I thought Trads were supposed to welcome the crosses God sends.   :confused1:

    Why for the sake of a very slight reduction of risk (even if you buy the whole MMR connection, the chances are less than 1%), would you drive a wedge between yourself and your wife and thereby risk your marriage and your entire family's eternal souls?

    That's just short sighted.


    So knowing that mercury is poisonous and giving children shots, because we're "supposed to accept crosses that God sends?" A TOTALLY PREVENTABLE THING? Just don't get the shot? Is a virtuous act to POISON your child? "Because we should accept the crosses God sends?" That's warped.

    I'm sure if these parents with autism on this board had KNOWN about these things BEFORE the shots, they would NEVER have given them.

    There are fetal stem cells in many of these shots, which ALONE is against our religion. THE END does not justify THE MEANS.


    There are not fetal stem cells in many of the shots you ignoramus.  How could that possibly be?  You think they liquidize babies and make shots out of them?  Cells injected into people would be attacked by your immune system.  

    Some of the vaccines use fetal stem cell lines, from many many years ago.  i.e. Cells that have been grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, grown, cut, frozen, before any vaccines are tested on them.

    Yes, originally those cells came from an aborted baby but given that they already exist and the lines exist and the damage has been done and the baby died decades ago the Church has stated that it is OK to have these inoculations.

    If you found out that your grandfather took a cutting of a rare and valuable imported tree, trespassed on someone's land in 1901 to do it and that man called the police and had him arrested for trespass and theft, would you go and cut down the 100 year old tree that the cutting grew from because good cannot come from evil acts?

    In some way would you be in possession of a stolen rare tree?


    The CONcilliar "church" has said that it's "okay." So yeah, you wanna comfort yourself believing that the end justifies the means, then you go right ahead. No pope before these last 6 jokes have even been close to anything like what a true pope would have said. I absolutely reject this.
    Matthew 5:37

    But let your speech be yea, yea: no, no: and that which is over and above these, is of evil.

    My Avatar is Fr. Hector Bolduc. He was a faithful parish priest in De Pere, WI,