Thank you, to all of you, for taking time to offer advice for our situation. I take them to heart and consider all as I am working on myself also while I suffer in this difficult marriage..it is not easy to come out and talk about this with strangers, but we are all Catholic, so that makes us FAMILY.
To those concerned, my husband has NEVER, and would NEVER deliberately expose our children to pornography. He does love them and sees the value of their innocence, but he cannot overcome this for himself.
I have the reminder in the back of my mind that every time he does this (regardless of the kids seeing or knowing anything) he brings demons with him, and in our home..unless there is some kind of heavenly protection that I cannot verify..so I am constantly haunted by this frightening reality.
(We use holy water liberally around here and daily. Benedict medals in place, and Hearts of Jesus and Mary displayed in a place of honor with daily Consecration said)
Thankfully the children have ZERO access to internet and tv is off during the day. Then it's mostly family oriented shows with dad.
I would toss the tv in a heartbeat if he would let me. But he's addicted.
The ideal that I am praying for is to be able to raise my children without the added modernism, and with Traditional Catholic Family Unity.
Daily prayers and Rosary while we trudge on.