Each day I continue to work out my salvation with fear and trembling and I keep meeting new people at work who assume I am going to hell for trying to be obedient to God. They claim I do not have a relationship with God and Jesus even though I so easily prove top them being a Catholic in the state of grace is the only way to get to heaven. They are unable to debate theology and history and yet they still claim I am going to hell. Why is this. I even had one temp in the past week say to me, “To much knowledge is a dangerous thing”. I was also called arrogant and told I need to just believe in God.

Why do so many people say they believe in God and Jesus and yet claim those of us Catholics who choose to be obedient to God will go to hell?

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They're parroting what they've heard all their Protestant lives.  Words won't reach them, only prayer and penance.

What I am finding very scary about attitudes from many Protestants, They know about the antichrist, yet, each day they more closely align with the antichrist and beliefs of Fɾҽҽmαsσɳɾყ.

What do you expect? They are protestants. Perfidious enemies of the Church and children of the devil.

Most people  I have had discussions with, who hate the Catholic Church, when I get them in a Theological trap, I ask them, "If you found out I was right, would you become a Traditional Catholic to save your soul to avoid eternal hell-fire?", most very quickly reply "NO!".

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There is your answer.  They don't want the truth, having already confabulated their own and chosen it.  The material heretics at my workplace are much nicer, more fair-minded, true liberals although most would vehemently deny it.  It sounds as if you have the misfortune to live/work amongst fundamentalist Baptists and snake handlers.  
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Sadly, I've found that what we find important, like worshiping Our Lord, honoring the Holy Mother, honoring those who've set a good example before us (our cloud of witnesses), believing in prayer for "the dead" (who, even by their edited Catholic Scriptures are in fact not "dead", as God is not God of the dead but of the living) — the very most basic tenets of the Holy Faith — is in fact what turns off most Protestants from the One and Only Faith.

They can clamor and whine about statue worship all they want (they have uninspired "pictures" of Jesus "hanging out" with cartoon kids, or featured in black velvet hanging in their living rooms, or on their t-shirts) — it's not "image worship", or that we "buy our way into Heaven", and all their other excuses they say that makes them think we're going to Hell. Mostly, what truly turns them off is the actual Faith. The cross with a corpus on it disgusts them (which is why I wear at least a crucifix always).

I hate to say it, but they don't read the edited Catholic Scriptures that they thump. (Or they cherry pick.) They thump, but where is their priest to whom they confess? Where is that priest's holy oil for healing? Where are their entreaties for intervention for their dearly departed brethren (even the Anglicans had that at one point)? They respond to John 6 just as +Jesus prophesied that unbelievers would (that it's "gross", silly, or worse). So what kind of excuse will they have on that day of their Judgement, when they claim to believe their edited Catholic Scriptures, but don't even know, much less follow, their edited Scriptures? (Much less would they have a priest to answer for them, as mentioned in St. Paul's epistle to the Hebrews!)

I find it very distressing. I don't argue with them, but I say something and move on (I'm a real "dust off the feet" sort): "Here's YOUR edited Catholic Scriptures: why doesn't your religion follow even that?!" (It used to be simply female leaders; now it's the Sodomite "marriage" evil they claim to disagree with, but still curse the Church for "archaic beliefs" or whatnot.)

Very distressing. I don't get it. Yes, a lot of people think I'm going to Hell for wearing a crucifix, or wearing my hair covered, or genuflecting as I pass a Church, because I don't have "faith" and charismatic experiences. Not to be cold, but their opinions about my eternal fate don't bother me. That they can't see what's right before them, that bothers me.

I know what I saw in the lives of the NO only confirmed to me what I was taught. Saints that schools were named after were associated with girls who slept around, wore too much makeup, dressed provocatively, partied, etc. NO friends had sisters who were having abortions, mothers who had live-in boyfriends, grandmothers who were drunk from Friday night - Sunday night, their brothers got into fights.

You could order some literature from here if they approach you again.
http://www.olrl.org/mm5/merchant.mvc


http://olrl.org/apologetics/one_church.shtml

http://olrl.org/apologetics/cathprot.shtml