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Offline Student of Qi

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Why are high-heels bad??
« on: March 14, 2018, 10:53:23 AM »
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    • So, there has been some popular threads as of late on the subject of what is and is not considered modest. Another in the anonymous section blasts high heel shoes. Can someone explain why they are considered "slutty"? I don't understand...
      Among the girls I've known to wear them, it's mostly to make themselves look taller due to their stature. And personally, I think it has good aesthetic if they pair it well with their dress. However, most often they don't use them because it can be a hassle/pain to wear, so maybe on just special occasions.
     Due to some folks having "foot fetish" I guess the prohibition of heels is understandable, but then what of sandals? Sandals don't stretch the foot out, but certainly do expose most of the feet. Some women even wear flip-flops! (Now those I find distasteful.)

    Maybe I'm desensitized or something, but I've never thought these below were much of a problem?

    Anyone?
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #1 on: March 14, 2018, 11:02:47 AM »
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    • Quote from: Student of Qi on March 14, 2018, 10:53:23 AM
    So, there has been some popular threads as of late on the subject of what is and is not considered modest. Another in the anonymous section blasts high heel shoes. Can someone explain why they are considered "slutty"? I don't understand...
      Among the girls I've known to wear them, it's mostly to make themselves look taller due to their stature. And personally, I think it has good aesthetic if they pair it well with their dress. However, most often they don't use them because it can be a hassle/pain to wear, so maybe on just special occasions.
     Due to some folks having "foot fetish" I guess the prohibition of heels is understandable, but then what of sandals? Sandals don't stretch the foot out, but certainly do expose most of the feet. Some women even wear flip-flops! (Now those I find distasteful.)

    Maybe I'm desensitized or something, but I've never thought these below were much of a problem?

    Anyone?

    Google "prostitute shoes", look at "images" not webpages, and you should understand.
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #2 on: March 14, 2018, 11:05:14 AM »
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    • Quote from: Student of Qi on March 14, 2018, 10:53:23 AM
    So, there has been some popular threads as of late on the subject of what is and is not considered modest. Another in the anonymous section blasts high heel shoes. Can someone explain why they are considered "slutty"? I don't understand...
      Among the girls I've known to wear them, it's mostly to make themselves look taller due to their stature. And personally, I think it has good aesthetic if they pair it well with their dress. However, most often they don't use them because it can be a hassle/pain to wear, so maybe on just special occasions.
     Due to some folks having "foot fetish" I guess the prohibition of heels is understandable, but then what of sandals? Sandals don't stretch the foot out, but certainly do expose most of the feet. Some women even wear flip-flops! (Now those I find distasteful.)

    Maybe I'm desensitized or something, but I've never thought these below were much of a problem?

    Anyone?
    Outside of mass, during the whole week, do you and/or your daughters wear short shorts, blue jeans, tank tops, yoga pants, spandex leggings and such?
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #3 on: March 14, 2018, 11:13:48 AM »
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    • Quote from: Last Tradhican on March 14, 2018, 11:05:14 AM
    Outside of mass, during the whole week, do you and/or your daughters wear short shorts, blue jeans, tank tops, yoga pants, spandex leggings and such?
    😂😂😂
    Mister, I ain't even 20 yet! Having little ones of my own sounds appealing but, no, they don't because I have none!
    I only wear blue-jeans once in a while, own only one pair, but they are the dark blue kind. Blue jeans are propperly work pants, so faded or ripped is just stupid in my opinion. When not wearing those I use cotton pants or the like Dickie's work pants, for example. I never use shorts unless it is in the privacy of my own home When I leave the house it's with a button up shirt and over half the time it's a long sleeved one.
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #4 on: March 14, 2018, 11:16:42 AM »
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    • Should I also mention I'm always wearing boots? Don't worry, I keep a black pair that I polish just for Sundays or being out and about. 🤠
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #5 on: March 14, 2018, 11:21:36 AM »
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    • Quote from: Student of Qi on March 14, 2018, 11:13:48 AM
    Mister, I ain't even 20 yet! Having little ones of my own sounds appealing but, no, they don't because I have none!
    I only wear blue-jeans once in a while, own only one pair, but they are the dark blue kind. Blue jeans are propperly work pants, so faded or ripped is just stupid in my opinion. When not wearing those I use cotton pants or the like Dickie's work pants, for example. I never use shorts unless it is in the privacy of my own home When I leave the house it's with a button up shirt and over half the time it's a long sleeved one.
    So, by gender you listed on CI and what you have said here, you are man who likes to wear stiletto high heels and you wear pants with no holes in them. 
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #6 on: March 14, 2018, 11:28:52 AM »
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    • Quote from: Last Tradhican on March 14, 2018, 11:21:36 AM
    So, by gender you listed on CI and what you have said here, you are man who likes to wear stiletto high heels and you wear pants with no holes in them.
    Okayyyyy.... You'v lost me.... how/where did I say I wear Stilettos? I really never wear anything other then Wolverine and Ariate work or western boots, except when I'm outdoors and barefoot on the gravel.
    ? ? ?
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #7 on: March 14, 2018, 11:34:51 AM »
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    • Quote from: Fanny on March 14, 2018, 11:02:47 AM
    Google "prostitute shoes", look at "images" not webpages, and you should understand.
    Well, I get it now. But, I don't ever recall anyone ever wearing anything that extreme to Mass. The heels I'm used to seeing are a simple solid color with what seem to be shorter heels. I definitely would disaprove of wearing something like what I've just seen, plus I would hate to think of how one's stumps would feel having something like that on all day. Crazy...
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #8 on: March 14, 2018, 11:43:24 AM »
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    • A "slutty" shoe is in the eye of the beholder.  Some folks here have very odd opinions about how a woman should/not dress.  

    A discussion on "slutty" socks will be next no doubt. 




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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #9 on: March 14, 2018, 11:55:30 AM »
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    • Quote from: Student of Qi on March 14, 2018, 11:28:52 AM
    Okayyyyy.... You'v lost me.... how/where did I say I wear Stilettos? I really never wear anything other then Wolverine and Ariate work or western boots, except when I'm outdoors and barefoot on the gravel.
    ? ? ?
    I misread your OP from the very beginning till and thought you were a woman. Then I noticed that you list yourself as a man and asked you if your wore stilettos.

    I apologize for the confusion. 
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #10 on: March 14, 2018, 11:57:34 AM »
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    • Quote from: Marlelar on March 14, 2018, 11:43:24 AM
    A "slutty" shoe is in the eye of the beholder.  Some folks here have very odd opinions about how a woman should/not dress.  

    A discussion on "slutty" socks will be next no doubt.
    I believe I agree with this. Different people are affected by different things and to different degrees. 
       I remember reading an excerpt from somewhere a long time ago about an abbot and some if his monks walking down the road. As they went on their way they were passed by a group of ladies (no mention if they were dressed provocatively). All the monks cast their eyes away or to the ground for fear of being tempted. When the women had passed them by the monks began questioning their superior asking "Why did you not turn away? Have you not fear of being tempted?" To which he responded something like "While all you see is an occasion of sin, I see another one of God's wonderous works, and a creature who God wants to share his Love with."
      Somethings are indeed unacceptable, but other things are a matter of perspective/opinion, I guess.
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #11 on: March 14, 2018, 11:58:00 AM »
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    • Quote from: Student of Qi on March 14, 2018, 11:34:51 AM
    Well, I get it now. But, I don't ever recall anyone ever wearing anything that extreme to Mass. The heels I'm used to seeing are a simple solid color with what seem to be shorter heels. I definitely would disaprove of wearing something like what I've just seen, plus I would hate to think of how one's stumps would feel having something like that on all day. Crazy...
    If you look more closely at the Google search you did, you will see some which are strikingly similar to the ones you posted which you think are o.k.
    They are not o.k.
    Be careful the type women you look at, son, especially the ones you consider for marriage.  That is, of course, if you want to rear proper children.
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #12 on: March 14, 2018, 11:58:32 AM »
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    • Quote from: Marlelar on March 14, 2018, 11:43:24 AM
    A "slutty" shoe is in the eye of the beholder.  
    I guess Google's "beholder eye" judges them to be for prostitutes.
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #13 on: March 14, 2018, 12:00:00 PM »
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    • Quote from: Last Tradhican on March 14, 2018, 11:55:30 AM
    I misread your OP from the very beginning till and thought you were a woman. Then I noticed that you list yourself as a man and asked you if your wore stilettos.

    I apologize for the confusion.
    Oh, no problem. Maybe I should've written more clearly, too.
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    Re: Why are high-heels bad??
    « Reply #14 on: March 14, 2018, 12:02:32 PM »
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    • Quote from: Marlelar on March 14, 2018, 11:43:24 AM
    A "slutty" shoe is in the eye of the beholder.  Some folks here have very odd opinions about how a woman should/not dress.  

    A discussion on "slutty" socks will be next no doubt.
    M, I generally agree with you, but in this case you are wrong.
    Google, as I recommended.  Those are slutty, no question about it.
    I have seen ladies at my chapel wear modest clothing except when it comes to their shoes.  ugh!!  The contrast is amazing.  Makes me wonder what they wear those shoes with during the week.
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