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Offline Matthew

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Re: Why are high-heels bad??
« Reply #100 on: April 02, 2018, 09:42:06 AM »
One of my favorite quotes (given above) is apparently from Chesterton:

[The Catholic Church] is the only thing that frees a man from the degrading slavery of being a child of his age.”

Another good one, appropriate for this discussion:

“A dead thing can go with the stream, but only a living thing can go against it.” It is so easy to go along with the culture. It takes fortitude and fire to go against it.

Online Ladislaus

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Re: Why are high-heels bad??
« Reply #101 on: April 02, 2018, 11:24:31 AM »
Women's fashions worn to look pretty?

Obviously that's only true to a point.  Certainly, it's quite evident that a woman wouldn't be walking around in public in just a bikini to look pretty.  But I'm talking about areas in which women may not understand how it might affect a man ... where they wouldn't be wearing something to appeal to a man (because they wouldn't be aware that it even does).  So, for instance, on the subject of high-heeled shoes, many women would not be aware of how these might induce a state of arousal in some men.  And I personally find most high heels to be UNattractive and rather ugly/tacky.  But they bring attention to themselves this way, and they're almost always seeking attention ... which is contrary to the attitude you're supposed to have in Church, that the focus should be on God and not on YOU.  But many don't know that the attention might involve a certain amount of sɛҳuąƖ interest from men.



Re: Why are high-heels bad??
« Reply #102 on: April 02, 2018, 11:52:11 AM »
Maybe so, but guys like me are so darn dence that nothing would've ever seemed wrong with heels or such unless it's pointed out.... Some of us are just dumber than others...  :-X

You aren't dense, but human beings are very out of touch with our instincts. High heels like this work their "magic" on many people's baser instincts even if they do not understand why. I would bet there are many millions of men who are very attracted to these without being able to explain why or even caring to know the explanations why. Women readily speak of these shoes as sexy but could they explain what about them increases sensuality? I don't know. I'd bet many couldn't. And that's part of the reason we have such trouble figuring out what is or is not modest, we aren't able/willing to learn the basic principles behind certain styles. 

Re: Why are high-heels bad??
« Reply #103 on: April 02, 2018, 01:37:40 PM »
The term "high heels" is subjective and wearing  high heels is not bad.  The notion that they are bad is puritanical and was probably a notion taken by some "holier than thou" trad to show that they are, well, holy. High heels on little girls and adolescents is inappropriate as it encourages them to lose their innocence. Ask any mother who has had a few children what they think about heels… They will probably tell you never again!

Bottom line, if you like 'em, wear 'em, and if you don't, MYOB.

I find it odd that you think little girls and adolescents will lose their innocence by wearing high heels, while seeming to deny high heels are sɛҳuąƖ and inappropriate for women striving for modesty. I'm not quite following.

Even so, there is no need to take nutty, puritanical, holier-than-thou trad Catholics' word for it. The world has no qualms proudly admitting everything that has been stated in this topic. They think this is good. They believe they are freeing our oppressed society from the chains of ʝʊdɛօ-Christian morality. So they proudly proclaim it for all to hear. Or at the very least, many are neutral and don't care either way, therefore have no motive not to be truthful. A quick search will give you the history of how, why and when high heels came back in style for women, as well as study after study after study proving/confirming the sensual effect of high heels.

I have noticed the only ones who regularly protest these truths are the men/women who are living a dichotomy between their Faith, words and actions. These are hard habits to give up so we sometimes prefer to be blind. Ignorance is bliss. Until it isn't.  


Re: Why are high-heels bad??
« Reply #104 on: April 02, 2018, 01:51:44 PM »
"Fanny" (:laugh1:) and Meg speak the double tongue. They'll defend slutty, immodest attire and false narratives with a feminist slant regarding marriage at one moment, then they'll say things like "what would our Mother wear?" just to give themselves some sense of "Catholic" plausibility.

I notice that there are a lot of women, especially aging women, who love to preach modesty to other women, especially to the pretty young ladies, but their preaching does not come from the right motive, this is charity, but from a place of envy and insecurity. Because of this, instead of cultivating a proper Catholic sense of modesty and a correct understanding of the value of chastity in the female gender, these women usually go to inordinate extremes of puritanism, just so they do not feel threatened.