You really need to learn the Catholic faith rather than whatever it is you've learned.
Not even Jesus loved everyone the same, though he loved everyone perfectly. Love, in this respect, is not an emotion; it is an act of the will. You love your wife differently than you love any other person in the world. You love your brothers and sisters (biological brothers and sisters, that is) differently than other people. You love your children differently than other anyone else. You love your relations in a different way than your immediate family. You love your friends and acquaintances differently than you love the stranger that you do not know. But you have love for all.
Who is your neighbor? All of the people I identified above (which means everyone) is your neighbor, but you do not have the same kind of love for all of them. On the other hand, you must have the love of all people for God's sake in your heart. You must even have love for an armed intruder that you kill in self-defense, which, ultimately, means that you have sorrow that you were forced to kill him and sorrow that he died during the act of committing a mortal sin and likely condemned himself to hell for eternity.
It seems that your concept of "love" is merely a sappy, emotional love--one that is often more lust than love. If what replies you have seen on this topic make you desire to marry an "Asian woman", then you are likely beyond understanding until you mature a little more. You seem to have the emotional state of a sixteen year old boy.