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Offline absit omen

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Wheres the quality women?
« on: October 04, 2011, 11:55:49 PM »
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  • Where is a he-trad supposed to find a suitable she-trad to marry?

    It seems to me that American women are tainted.

    Are there any foreigners that can speak for their women?

    Hopefully the situation is better in other countries.
    I am a FishEaters refugee.


    Offline ServusSpiritusSancti

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    « Reply #1 on: October 05, 2011, 09:37:06 AM »
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  • If you're looking for Traditional Catholic women you can try here. You can browse different age groups and even browse women from each state.

    http://www.traditionalsinglecatholics.com/index.php

    There's also the SSPX dating site.
    Please ignore ALL of my posts. I was naive during my time posting on this forum and didn’t know any better. I retract and deeply regret any and all uncharitable or erroneous statements I ever made here.


    Offline Graham

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    « Reply #2 on: October 05, 2011, 10:15:23 AM »
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  • On the one hand, I completely sympathize with you; on the other, there are American women on this board and I imagine they're hurt by summary dismissals to the effect that they're tainted and low quality. Perhaps a better way to see American women in general is as lost sheep. ("And seeing the multitudes, he had compassion on them; because they were distressed, and lying like sheep that have no shepherd." Matthew 9:36)

    Offline Waskiewicz

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    Wheres the quality women?
    « Reply #3 on: October 05, 2011, 11:47:21 AM »
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  • I second Graham’s opinion in that I think many seemingly unfit candidates are simply lost sheep. Some women are stubborn, want what they want and don’t really care what you, the Church, or anyone else has to say about it. To single out the “tainted” women in the Novus Ordo, I’m sure some know about the errors of VII, modernism, feminism (etc.) and still persist in their ways. But there are also many spiritually dead or dying people in their places of worship that really are well-meaning people who would make excellent Traditional Catholic mothers.

    I do believe if you were open to trying to convert them, God would work miracles through you. Many times has He beautifully done it before. Weeding out all the pollution in her mind might be a great task and one you doubt you’re fit to undertake: but that poor lifeless soul is one that our loving Savior shed His Precious Blood for, who might not be saved otherwise.
    There is only one thing to do here below: to love Jesus, to win souls for Him so that He may be loved.
    The Little Flower

    I will not offer to the Lord my God sacrifices which cost me nothing. I will pay the full price.
    cf. 2 Kings 24:24

    Offline absit omen

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    Wheres the quality women?
    « Reply #4 on: October 05, 2011, 11:57:11 AM »
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  • what's the difference between sayin that the women are unfit to marry or lost sheep?

    same thing.
    I am a FishEaters refugee.


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    « Reply #5 on: October 05, 2011, 12:04:45 PM »
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  • Quote from: absit omen
    what's the difference between sayin that the women are unfit to marry or lost sheep?

    same thing.


    Lost sheep can be helped by a good shepherd, that's the difference. It's a different way of perceiving the problem and your role in it: "This woman is a lost sheep" vs. "This woman is tainted and of low quality". Now, it isn't your duty to marry an American woman, you're within your rights to just look elsewhere. I'm only suggesting a different way of looking at American women in general.

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    « Reply #6 on: October 05, 2011, 12:09:23 PM »
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  • "And seeing the multitudes, he summarily dismissed them; because they were tainted, and of low quality."

    Isn't quite the same, is it?

    Offline Telesphorus

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    « Reply #7 on: October 05, 2011, 12:12:53 PM »
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  • I think absit has a valid point that it is folly to go out into the random world of women in America and expect to find a decent bride.

    Let's not forget Tobias went to visit his kinswoman.

    Esau married two Hittite women.  (Indo-European - can't say I blame him, but apparently Isaac and Rebecca did)
     
    The first rule is to search from the correct pool.

    You may need to move overseas, but really the cultural contamination has spread everywhere, especially among younger people.  

    Just be very careful and forget about the rest - unless you're greeted by an angel - forget about them.


    Offline s2srea

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    « Reply #8 on: October 05, 2011, 12:25:39 PM »
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  • Every week or every other week, after my toilet is used by people, I disinfect it with  bleach. Then, its clean again.

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    « Reply #9 on: October 05, 2011, 12:28:51 PM »
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    Every week or every other week, after my toilet is used by people, I disinfect it with bleach. Then, its clean again



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    « Reply #10 on: October 05, 2011, 12:46:18 PM »
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  • Quote from: sedetrad
    ?


    Give it a minute...


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    « Reply #11 on: October 05, 2011, 12:49:16 PM »
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  • Ah, you are putting yourself forward as a quality trad cath woman. cool!

    Offline s2srea

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    « Reply #12 on: October 05, 2011, 01:10:39 PM »
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  • HAHAHAHA!

    no no no... :fryingpan:

    I"m saying, if something gets 'tainted'/dirty- its usually possible to cleanse it. We don't necessarily need to toss things out. If they're salvageable, then salvage it!

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    « Reply #13 on: October 05, 2011, 01:15:01 PM »
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  • To explain further....

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    It seems to me that American women are tainted.


    I can understand why this person wrote this. It can be discouraging when trying to find one to marry yourself to and worthy enough to raise children with. But its a bit too big of a generalization to say ALL american women are tainted. There's still some good fruit out there. It may just need some dusting off.  :wink:

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    « Reply #14 on: October 05, 2011, 01:33:19 PM »
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  • Lady MacBeth said "a little water" was enough to clear them of the deed.

    These people in Italy smelled of bleach.

    It's always been a serious problem, the presumption of people who go to weekly confession to receive communion and end up sinking into hypocrisy.  I was there in the Novus Ordo.  

    It's hard to accept the consequences of messing up.  Especially over a long period.

    What we have though, is a society where women think they have a license to mess up.  It seems that very old civilizations end in this stage of feminization of society. I've read something about the Egyptians being that way.

    What is frightening is that technological development may mean there's no way out of this bind.  We're stuck and it's just going to get worse and worse.