Everything comes from the traditional catholic family by the grace of God. All children of both genders, all Vocations including the highest office of the church. It would make since that a good Catholic girl/boy would come from a traditional family. As a married father of 8 I take my vocation to God seriously. My wife, who is also a traditional Catholic is not like a separate person, but part of me. We raise our children as servants of God, and God provides everything we need as long as we work hard. This example is passed on to our children which will help them in the vocation they choose. If your looking for a partner in the Faith I would start there. That is where my wife came from. I used the example of Fathers of other big traditional families to help me become a better Father as well as lots of prayer. Hope that helps some of you and may God Bless you in your search for a vocation.