Author Topic: Visible bra straps. (Read 7198 times)

Zenith · « **Reply #45 on:** May 06, 2011, 08:42:42 PM »

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Congrats! You've just described Sede-ism!

For stevus everything boils down to sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, like a broken record, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, ahhhhh I can't think of anything but sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, I will turn every discussion into sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, and this is a guy who thinks the majority of members of this forum are kooky, where was I, oh yes, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, what were we discussing, oh yes, sede, sede, sede, sede, etc, etc, etc.................................................................................................................................................... :cussing:

parentsfortruth · « **Reply #46 on:** May 06, 2011, 09:25:11 PM »

Quote from: Zenith

Quote from: stevusmagnus
Congrats! You've just described Sede-ism!

For stevus everything boils down to sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, like a broken record, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, ahhhhh I can't think of anything but sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, I will turn every discussion into sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, and this is a guy who thinks the majority of members of this forum are kooky, where was I, oh yes, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, sede, what were we discussing, oh yes, sede, sede, sede, sede, etc, etc, etc.................................................................................................................................................... :cussing:

:roll-laugh1:

parentsfortruth · « **Reply #47 on:** May 06, 2011, 09:28:02 PM »

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a parishioner approaching them about it WILL NOT HELP. A DIRECT admonishment from the Priest needs to happen! They KNOW what the rules are, and they KNOW what is expected of them, and are going against that. How does one approach that charitably? You go to the PRIEST, and HE takes care of it.

Yes coming from a Priest is the best as they have to God given authority though that is not to say it can't come from a fellow parishoner if you know the parishoner.

What do you mean, "How does one approach that charitably?"? You do exactly that. If you think that you personally can't do it, doesn't mean others can't.

See, it's not that I don't believe I can't do it. I totally could (and I already have,) but what I understand that perhaps you don't yet, is that coming from a parishoner, the message does not stick because, people coming in dressed like that normally have a problem with pride to begin with, so, you need to let the PRIEST deal with it, because with a parishoner saying it, it goes in one ear and out the other. "Why should I listen to them? They're holier than thou!" Even if you SAY it in a charitable, tactful way.

MaterDominici · « **Reply #48 on:** May 12, 2011, 01:15:26 AM »

Quote from: Zenith

Here is a very good video on modesty if anyone is interested.

Did you watch this, Raoul? The second person pictured in the video has .... visible bra straps!

It's a good NO modesty video, for Trads you'd have to step it up a bit.

parentsfortruth · « **Reply #49 on:** May 12, 2011, 10:24:50 AM »

Quote from: MaterDominici

Quote from: Zenith
Here is a very good video on modesty if anyone is interested.

Did you watch this, Raoul? The second person pictured in the video has .... visible bra straps!

It's a good NO modesty video, for Trads you'd have to step it up a bit.

I noticed this too.

I was thinking to myself, "Well wait, what about her shirt? You can see her bra strap!"

Zenith · « **Reply #50 on:** May 13, 2011, 09:59:42 PM »

Quote from: MaterDominici

Quote from: Zenith
Here is a very good video on modesty if anyone is interested.

Did you watch this, Raoul? The second person pictured in the video has .... visible bra straps!

It's a good NO modesty video, for Trads you'd have to step it up a bit.

I must say I didn't notice the visible bra straps. Admittedly it is NO, though I put it up as its probably the best video on modesty I have seen as it does a good job of describing the guys view point. Have you any links to Traditional modesty videos with no visible bra straps?

stevusmagnus · « **Reply #51 on:** May 13, 2011, 10:08:21 PM »

And the irony is that she is talking about the crazy idea of going outside with one's underwear on. As she sits there talking to the camera with bra strap exposed!

MaterDominici · « **Reply #52 on:** May 14, 2011, 12:17:48 AM »

Quote from: Zenith

Quote from: MaterDominici
Quote from: Zenith
Here is a very good video on modesty if anyone is interested.

Did you watch this, Raoul? The second person pictured in the video has .... visible bra straps!

It's a good NO modesty video, for Trads you'd have to step it up a bit.

I must say I didn't notice the visible bra straps. Admittedly it is NO, though I put it up as its probably the best video on modesty I have seen as it does a good job of describing the guys view point. Have you any links to Traditional modesty videos with no visible bra straps?

No, unfortunately, I don't know of any, which is why I gave credit where credit was due and said it was a good intro to modesty video.

MrsZ · « **Reply #53 on:** May 14, 2011, 09:56:53 AM »

Quote from: MaterDominici

Did you watch this, Raoul? The second person pictured in the video has .... visible bra straps!

It's a good NO modesty video, for Trads you'd have to step it up a bit.

I think that while well-meaning, the second woman in the video is dressed somewhat sloppily. I think that she's actually wearing some kind of camisole or tank type shirt and then a loose, ill-fitting sweater over it. Tops other than bras can have spaghetti type straps.

The whole impression, while technically exposing some shoulder and chest area, is not one of allurement, but careless dishevelment. And that fails in the area of decorum and modesty in a different way than someone trying to seduce by appearance, IMO.