I am on the serious side. Married 39 years to the same guy, best friend! My high suggestion is put it to prayer. Next, be your self! Be a friend. Don't spoil a lady. Ladies like flowers, keep it to one stem for now. Make sure she is a lady! If you ever date, make sure the date is fun! Tennis, bowling, picnic and stay away from movies unless you really know it will not be offensive. Resturants that are quiet, no loud music. Be a gentleman. Ask Our Lady to help you in that area. She will help you to be a REAL MAN. But it is important to be yourself. They need to see you as you truly are and it will be easier all the way around to enjoy finding someone. We have a son age 35 and he too would like a nice lady. I have told him to keep it to prayer. If God wants a lady for you, he will see to it! And I have warned my son, you can not act quickly if one comes along. You must be on your guard. all it takes is one wrong move and you can be worse off, than you are now. You may think you are crying with both eyes, when in reality you are crying with one. We are in very evil times and you must be on your guard. I am off my perch.