I see no one no more.  I believe I have been shunned by these hypocrites. People are becoming cold and mean. 
How can they be members of any lay ministry when they can’t even be decent to each other?   Big show offs.  Hypocrites.  

I am still amazed at my mother-in-law's extremely integrated life. (I get along with her very well, BTW)

She has lived in the same small town (pop. 1000) since 1982. Before that, she was still within a 20 mile radius.
Her children all went to the schools in that town. So she knows a lot of families that way.
She has always gone to church at the local Catholic church (yes, she's Novus Ordo), so she knows all the parishioners. She's an "OG" parishioner.
She is semi-involved in civic events, like the annual raising of money for the volunteer fire department. So she knows people that way.
She currently works a few blocks from her house, at an engineering firm her son owns.

My point: all of her "spheres" overlap almost completely. Her church crowd, who she sees around her home or locally at the store, her past life, and everything else are all the same group of people. Imagine having all your "lives" overlap into the same reality. It's a blast from the past, when people lived in villages.

I, on the other hand, have almost zero overlap. There's my neighbors, co-workers (when I'm employed), Church crowd, past life up north, my college friends (for me, it's ex-seminarians), who my children know from music classes, etc. and never the twain shall meet. None of these groups know each other. No one is in more than one of these groups.

Maybe 20 of 200+.  Our Lady of the Sun in El Mirage AZ.

What % of your "church friends" do you see off church property?
Today I realized the the vast majority of those I associate with at church I've rarely seen off church property. This doesn't seem normal.
In the past, parish and home/civil life were much more integrated.

I’m not very mathematically minded so don’t think in percentage!! So I’d say two or three families, plus a few others see occasionally. Also the fact I’m married with children means I want to make connections and friends for our children. 

im still in touch with friends from other churches, have friends who attend the new Mass and a few Protestant friends too. 

Actually, I'm an engineer, and the math stumped me, and I'm thinking:

percent of Church friends? like how often? in a month? a week? what.

Maybe the OPT should read how what percent of people at church do you see outside of church at least once a month? I'm confusing myself now.

That’s really funny! I suppose if you’re a mathematician you can start to analyse data TOO much!!

I haven't had a Catholic friend my entire life