Welcome to the spirit of ecuмenism!
Ecuмenism is a dream of modernists wherein we "all get together." Now... if we are all in different churches with different faiths, how do we all get together? Simple. First, we allow that everybody is right in believing and worshiping differently. Secondly, we ourselves (and we encourage others to) empty our own beliefs and practices of everything that is an obstacle to this unity.
I'm getting this garbage, by the way, from someone who is IN Rome, IN the Church, RIGHT NOW... who for the respect of his position and office in the church I will not name. (No, it's not the pope.)
So... where are the leaders, the shepherds? They are in the Church. But, they are professing this above idea, which by itself requires that we Catholics, looking for this (heretical) unity, must of course begin it by emptying out the Church of any beliefs which "are hurtful to the feelings of other people of other religions." Well, if we are getting rid of all of the ideas that are intrinsically Catholic that offend other religions, and if we are trying for this false unity which says there is nothing wrong with whatever your religion is, or however you profess it... then they think they ARE leading, by not condemning anyone or anything (except the dinosaurs who are still trying NOT to partake of the error of ecuмenism by demolishing the Faith.)
In fact, this principal of ecuмenism might even be why Rome still keeps trying to "make a deal" with the SSPX. After all, if it sees the SSPX as schismatic, they're "another faith" which "must be added to the universal church (in the sense of ecuмenical unity)" just like the Jєωs or the Buddhists.
But fortunately, God can enlighten a person's mind and move their heart from this kind of nonsense, even if they are right now firmly entrenched in it. For instance, as Rome watches the churches folding up one after another, it will, eventually, have to admit that there is a problem. (Actually they already do, at least UNofficially, admit this.) And there is the little window where God's grace can come in. But we have to pray for it. We have to pray that when the guys at the top wake up from this silly and insane (blasphemous) ecuмenical dream of theirs, to find the Church more or less in ashes, they will hear God's voice of reason, look at how the Church GOT there, and finally realize that they need to back up the boat, and try the course it had been holding for some 2000 years. Then we may hope to see the 'leaders' as they should be.
For now, the leaders we must be content with, are any and all churchmen who have not swallowed this ecuмenical poison which is effectively (at least NEARLY) killing the Church, and who are adhering to the teachings of Christ and Tradition (and sanity). Even if they've been condemned by men of "a broader vision" as evil for not seeing it their way.
The sheep will never be the answer, except in following the Divine Shepherd and His instructions. The church has always taught that prayer is more than wishful thinking. It is action, which can (and will) have a very real effect. So we must begin to pray like we believe that. If, on the other hand, the sheep get together and decide to attack the wolves... well... there are going to be a few more wool scarves, but... probably not fewer wolves. That's what the shepherd is there for, and only God can straighten him/them out.
Funnily enough, everybody condemns the SSPX as being stubborn, but basically, by example of holding onto the Church of Christ of 2000 years (and their sanity), they are effectively trying to convert the wolves dressed as shepherds. (This may take some time, though...) I guess if you have to convert the world, you have to start somewhere. Might as well be in Rome.