From a wise woman on Facebook:
What does "... staying open to both" look like? What do young women expect God to do? Come sit at their table and discuss what would make them "happy"? If one thinks they may have a vocation... then by all means find a religious home and enter with all your heart! What are you waiting for? Some man to come sweep you off your feet so you can say, "Oh, I was open to the convent, but it was not GOD's will!" Hogwash, I say! Does a young woman hang out after their schooling hoping for their knight, but IF he doesn't come then, "I guess I'll try the convent." Those words, "I'm open to both" sounds nice but truly are meaningless... Any man that would try to marry a woman that truly has a vocation, is putting himself in a place.... hmmmm... not so good place. Don't you think?