I can answer some of your questions:
1. The terms "adore", "worship", etc., do have various meanings and connotations. It is difficult to give any absolute answer. The way we worship God, as the Creator, with our whole heart, soul, mind, and strength, is different from the way we "worship" the Blessed Virgin Mary as the greatest intercessor between us and her Son. The term as I just used it would have been understood differently 200 years ago. In today's lexicon, it would be better to say that we worship God and we venerate Mary and the Saints.
2. Canon lawyers have existed since the Church first began to issue canons that people had to apply in slightly different circuмstances. This is not a creation of Vatican 2.
3. What, precisely is an "ethicists"? The Church used to use confessors to help the faithful resolve ethical problems. Today, it seems that "ethics" isn't a moral issue but whatever the rules and regulations say one can get away with. I believe the term "ethicist" is a word without real meaning.
4. I don't know if there are any traditional exorcists, but I would think that all Conciliar exorcists are worthless since the Conciliar church really doesn't believe in the supernatural.
5. "Invincible ignorance" is a traditional term if it is understood in a traditional sense. Invincible ignorance means that a person is excused from a sin of unbelief because he has never had the opportunity to know the truth. A newly baptized baby, for example, is invincibly ignorant of the doctrine of the Immaculate Conception (or any other doctrine for that matter). If the baptized baby dies before reaching the age of reason, he is sinless because of that invincible ignorance. Invincible ignorance can also excuse a person even though he has reached the age of reason if he has never been taught and never could have learned a particular doctrine. This does not excuse moral sins against the natural law written in the hearts of all men. Nor does it save so that one needn't receive the sacrament of Baptism.
6. I don't know about organizations that provide evangelism pamphlets for Protestants. Unfortunately, given the crisis in the Church, Catholics already have their hands full trying to convert "Catholics" to the Catholic faith. You just can't convert someone using a tweet.
7. I'm not overly family with the miracle you obviously have a great devotion for.