I think this is why I don't come here very often anymore. There's an almost Calvinistic streak that has entered this forum, a view that worldly success is somehow an indicator of spiritual well-being, and that if you don't make over $60,000 a year, have a house, two cars, are married and have x number of kids, there's something defective in your spiritual life. I don't mean this to sound like a personal attack, but it's true what they say, a forum usually takes on the personality of its moderator(s). Unfortunately, Matthew seems to be of this mode of thinking, and that's why most of the rest of this forum has gone along with it.
What has happened to Christianity being the religion of the poor, the orphan, the widow? I'm not saying we should go all liberation theology or anything, but having a little more charity for those in dire circuмstances would be a good thing, I think. I'm glad I get to interact with poor people, people with disabilities, etc., on a regular basis. It keeps me honest, and makes me realize that not everyone has the advantages that I have (not to mention, it gives me ample reason to pray for those around me, which ultimately benefits me, too).