Modern women use Instagram as a de-facto dating site. They get tons of attention from men, which many women interpret as "options" in a worst-case, and free validation and attention in a best-case.
Men "like" their photos, and often "slide into their DMs" or contact them via private message.
I've heard the quantity of messages attractive women get on Instagram would blow your mind. Especially when they post "thirst traps" or provocative/immodest photos of themselves.
This appeals to the wounds of Original Sin specific to women: namely, vanity. Women thrive on attention/love. They feed on all the male attention, and it goes right to their heads, destroying them. They can't stop thinking about their "other options" and become unable to settle down with an average guy on their level. Nevermind if the attention is all superficial or lust-based -- women completely confuse attention from "top 1%" men with getting *commitment* or marriage from such men.
Seriously, my understanding is that when young people meet (wherever), they are most likely to exchange their "Insta" -- not their phone number/text, e-mail address, or any other contact info. Instagram is the #1 form of contact among singles (at least for those under 30).
Before I was became a traditional Catholic but after covid, I had secular girls lose interest when they asked me for my instagram/snapchat after I told them I didn't have them. Either they must have thought I'm some kind of non-social media weirdo, or I can't be manipulated like others since I don't play stupid social media 'games'. I find it very strange that people want to post their entire lives online for everyone else to see whenever they do something. It's weird attention seeking behaviour that is bad for the mind. "Oh I don't have as many likes at this person" "That person is always doing something fun while I have a normal monotonous life" etc.
Women care about a man’s weight. If a man is overweight he’s likely to suffer health problems. Tall women care about a man’s height. I do think very short men say under 5ft 4 have more difficulty finding wives as most women don’t want to marry a man shorter than them!
Shorter women care more about a man's height than the taller women. Men I know told me that a secular women rejected them because they weren't tall enough when she wears high (better called stripper) heels