Concerning Immodesty Women and threads about them, the existence of immodest women being widespread should not be a surprise, however, the most troubling thing about such threads is not those who advocate modesty, but those who defend immodesty.
Maybe that is why it is a frequently discussed topic, because it is so often opposed.
Modesty is not a cultural standard, a personal comfort and familiarity, or other such things. It is a interior state of regulation of external acts and appearances to be holy and rightly ordered. The virtue is not an accident or a relative comparison to others. The issues of modesty exist in men and women, however, the most scandalous are in women, as they usually present a clear occasion of sin to others. Modesty is easy...even the most habitually immodest do not find it that difficult to be modesty if they choose. However, Chastity is not easy, and the immodest can lead others to Lust, therefore, it is a very important topic spiritually.
A few things I have observed:
* Accusing those scandalized of being perverts is not the Christian response. The antecedent movement of the passions to to lust caused by the immodest is involuntary and not a sin, however, it is an occasion of sin (so the immodest are scandalous, potentially gravely sinful). One could use the pervert accusation for those whose Lust is consequent.
* Acts of immodesty are sins even when it is not an occasion of sin to others.
* The "what about men" response is also not valid, as while there may be moral issues other than this one, diverting attention to others to end a discussion about one concern is not valid. The influence of feminism in this society is great and one must be careful to avoid being infected with such thinking.
Women and Men are the two forms of humanity and are not opposed to each other in any way. Creating opposition is unholy.
* Other moral concerns are other moral concerns. While every other concern is something which is valid to discussion and consider, not all are equal in gravity and common concern. Those who are occasions of sins to others (especially oneself) are usually the most prominent which are a common concern.
* Opposing others who state how others should dress or present themselves should be carefully reviewed to find the motivation for this opposition. The central major issue is not modesty itself, but what immodesty can provoke in others without consent of the will. This is a major concern and all women and any men who have authority over women should be very mindful of this. The reason why men do not get such rebukes like this is largely because men are not such occasions of sin as often.