Well then I guess it is best in most all cases to home school. I find it strange when stay at home Traditional Catholic mothers do not teach at home. What on earth do they do all day long? It has been a struggle but I am so very glad that I teach my children. That is after all the mother's job.
I'd be tempted to wonder the same thing -- I'd hope they have some altruistic, selfless pursuit they're involved in.
And if they're sending kids to public school they'd better have a VERY good reason for
throwing away their children's souls. Harsh, but in most cases that's what it is.
They'll try to justify it, but what they REALLY WANT is the convenience/pleasure of having children gone a bunch of the day, so they can relax and pursue their own interests. They are choosing rest and relaxation over their children's souls -- souls that are supposed to be their prime concern in this life. The souls of one's children are the main subject for parents at the particular judgment.
Apparently out there in the world there's a whole category of women who are "stay at home housewives" who don't have kids or a job -- usually because the husband makes plenty of money. The old "meal ticket husband" where the poor slob works his butt off. Apparently these "desperate housewives" are a greedy sort, talking to each other and comparing notes on how big everyone's diamond is.
The man is gone so much trying to earn money for her next diamond ring upgrade, then she commits adultery with another man and sues her poor husband for divorce. Then he has to lose 1/2 his possessions, etc. The world really has it out for men. For the man, it's lose-lose-lose-lose.
So the world has even worse problems than we trad. Catholics do!
I read about this type in a "don't get married, guys!" docuмent someone posted. It was full of anecdotes. Very interesting -- it made me glad I was in the traditional Catholic world!
Matthew