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Thank you, thank you all.

For your warm welcoming, suggestions, and help. 

WorldsAway, I will pray for you too.

I come from a rough family and live in a rough city, I appreciate everyone's patience with me. 

My aunt has been committing medically induced ѕυιcιdє, slowly over the course of the past 6 years, by the grace of God she is still alive. She was found in critical condition today before my mom rushed her to the hospital. She is alive praise God. She had kids 18 years ago and didn't take care of them, and it's been ruining her life. I want to do everything I can to not end up like her, or like my father who went to jail for abusing me.

There is not much anyone can directly do to fix this situation, but all the help towards making me a better man through God has been a life saver, more importantly a soul saver. Despite all of the sorrow and misery I have been placed into. I can't thank you all enough for the direction this has given me, and keeping the faith and the spirit alive despite the vicious attacks against everything pure and holy of this world. 

One mark of Good Leadership in a man (that would make him marriage-material), is that he knows how to bring out the best in the woman he is courting or dating.

Are you expecting to marry a sinless woman?  No?

Alright then.    Find a woman who loves Jesus and is going basically the right direction and then find out how you can help bring out the best in her.    This will be good preparation for marriage, even if you don't ultimately end up marrying her, or if you do.

A woman is what her father made her. End of story.