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Ten reasons to marry a traditional woman
« on: January 09, 2013, 07:36:21 PM »
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  • 10 Reasons to Marry a Traditional Woman
    Categories: Gender Roles, Marriage, Tools for Success

    1.) CIVILIZATION: Feminism is bad news! We, as traditional women’s rights activists are for reforming our families and society or one day we will end up like Rome. The elite do control everything and the our elected representatives are their pawns (this includes the president). The only way to fix this is strong families. Gender equality does not work. Therefore by having a traditional wife you and your wife will ensure that your children and the future generations, will live in a strong well balanced state. http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2010/12/27/feminism-responsible-for-the-fall-of-rome/  

    2.) MONEY: You will earn more money, because you will enjoy the benefits of a wife who will take care of the home life. Therefore, the only thing you will worry about is making money and protecting the family. The more focused you are on your job and your career the more you and your family will benefit. It pays to be traditional!  http://www.livescience.com/2876-men-traditional-views-sex-roles-earn-money.html

    3.) HOME AS A CASTLE: Your home will be your castle. It will be the bastion of peace and serenity after a days work. Your traditional wife will take of it. She will make sure that a comfortable home life is established house is cleaned, dishes done, laundry neatly stacked in closets and so on. It will be a joy coming home to a lovely wife and beautiful kids.

    4.) RESPECT: A traditional wife greatly respects a man who is providing for her. She will make sure he is comfortable. She will not nag him and she will understand and respect his leadership role. Both of you will have roles that you will do, therefore there will be less conflict and more peace, love and quiet. http://feminismhurtswomen.blog.com/2012/08/20/why-gender-roles-work-the-sociological-perspective-applied-to-the-show-i-dream-of-jeannie”/

    5.). VIRTUE AND GOODNESS: She will be your trophy wife a woman who is of great value to her family; her husband and children. She is a wife that holds the family together, is always there for her husband and is a great example to other women and, of course, her children. She will give you the most beautiful gift her virginity, therefore her love for you will be even greater. You will be the only man in the world for her. She will be good and beautiful just for you. http://www.facebook.com/pages/Beautiful-Trophy-Wives/354248464650277

    6.) OBEDIENT: Due to a more relaxed and slow-paced environment of the home your wife will be more relaxed and happy. Which means no nagging and obedience to what you say. When a woman is satisfied and not stressed out, she will listen to your leadership and will not question your authority over the family.

    7.) HAPPILY EVER AFTER: Yes, your wife and you will grow old together. There are less instances of divorce for traditional families then the more egalitarian counterparts. “Divorce rates seem to be determined, at least partially, by who wears the pants in the family. If it is the wife, there will be trouble according to a study done by Cornell University.” http://www.divorcesaloon.com/2010/09/10/new-york-cornell-university-study-shows-that-divorce-rates-are-higher-for-women-who-make-more-than-their-husbands-higher-infidelity-rates/

    8.) CHILDREN: Your children will be raised in a safe and secure environment to grow and prosper. Your children will learn the correct morals and they will be loved and cared for by your wife. Therefore, you will know for sure that she will not neglect her children. Your children will be better-adjusted adults and turn into successful individuals who will give back to society. “The more time children spent in child care from birth to age four-and-a-half, the more adults tended to rate them, both at age four-and-a-half and at kindergarten, as less likely to get along with others, as more assertive, as disobedient, and as aggressive, according to a study appearing in the July/August issue of Child Development.” http://www.nichd.nih.gov/news/releases/child_care.cfm

     

    9.) NO FEMINIST BS: A traditional wife will enjoy her femininity; she will revel in being a woman. Therefore, she will not be a feminist. She does not need silly whores telling her what to do. A traditional woman is an asset she has strong self-esteem in her femininity. Therefore, she will love and respect you for your masculinity. That is why your relationship will be great. http://www.henrymakow.com/130103.html

    10.) PROTECTION: Your wife will be protected and provided for. You will be sure that no harm comes to her from society at large or other men. You will know about her whereabouts. In this Patriarchal and traditional marriage if you have daughters, they will be protected. Because they had an amazing father as their role model that is why when the time comes for them to marry, they will marry a traditional man, who is willing to love them and protect them. http://feminismhurtswomen.blog.com/2012/08/24/how-patriarchy-protects-women-part-1-“sɛҳuąƖ-liberation-oppresses-women”/
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    Ten reasons to marry a traditional woman
    « Reply #1 on: January 09, 2013, 07:54:27 PM »
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  • 'A silent wife is a gift from the Lord; nothing is worth more than her self-discipline.'

    'A modest wife is a supreme blessing; no scales can weigh the worth of her chastity.'

    Sirach 26:14,15
    Sincerely,

    Shin

    'Flores apparuerunt in terra nostra. . . Fulcite me floribus.' (The flowers appear on the earth. . . stay me up with flowers. Sg 2:12,5)'-


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    « Reply #2 on: January 09, 2013, 10:59:56 PM »
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  • A Traditional Catholic  wife will help her husband SAVE HIS SOUL!!!



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    « Reply #3 on: January 09, 2013, 11:29:23 PM »
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  • Now you need to post "10 Reasons to Marry a NewChurch Wife" so we can compare.

    Hilarity ensues!

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    « Reply #4 on: January 10, 2013, 10:53:29 AM »
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  • Thanks for the post. It is good you also attached complimentary and superb links to promote your true points.


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    « Reply #5 on: January 10, 2013, 01:14:50 PM »
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    Such a girl is a rare find among the young in the USA today. It's probably worse in Europe.

    Maybe a Filipino woman? They are accustomed to work.


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    Such a girl is a rare find among the young in the USA today. It's probably worse in Europe.


    Hah.  Actually, it's the exact opposite.  The unique brand of feminism from the United States is notorious for making English-speaking women butch, self-righteous, and consciously opposed to natural womanliness.  Not so on the European continent, where feminism mainly manifests itself as a desire for equal political enfranchisement and sɛҳuąƖ libertinism, rather than the integral hatred of femininity as such.  You should find new sources; your present impression of the United States relative to Europe and vice versa regularly shows itself to be essentially defective.

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    « Reply #7 on: January 11, 2013, 10:04:24 AM »
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  • Quote from: PereJoseph
    Hah.  Actually, it's the exact opposite.  The unique brand of feminism from the United States is notorious for making English-speaking women butch, self-righteous, and consciously opposed to natural womanliness.  Not so on the European continent, where feminism mainly manifests itself as a desire for equal political enfranchisement and sɛҳuąƖ libertinism, rather than the integral hatred of femininity as such.  You should find new sources; your present impression of the United States relative to Europe and vice versa regularly shows itself to be essentially defective.


    So true.  Even those of us struggling to be real women and true to our Catholic calling....feminism has seeped into our minds.  It's a real challenge to detach from those worldly lies because we've been brainwashed to believe that being feminine and submissive is ABUSIVE.

    Fr. Pfeiffer uses a phrase to describe a trad Catholic woman who retains feminist ideology and behavior:  spiritual wife syndrome.  I hope he does a conference on this topic someday.  Souls and marriages might be saved.


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    « Reply #8 on: January 11, 2013, 10:56:50 AM »
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  • Interesting the way things come up serendipitously. Here's an article from LifeSite News that was posted yesterday:

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    Young men giving up on marriage: ‘Women aren’t women anymore’
    Hilary White       Thu Jan 10 20:02 EST       Family

    January 10, 2013 (LifeSiteNews.com) – Fewer young men in the US want to get married than ever, while the desire for marriage is rising among young women, according to the Pew Research Center.

    Pew recently found that the number of women 18-34 saying that having a successful marriage is one of the most important things rose from 28 percent to 37 percent since 1997. The number of young adult men saying the same thing dropped from 35 percent to 29 percent in the same time.

    Pew’s findings have caught the attention of one US writer who maintains that feminism, deeply entrenched in every segment of the culture, has created an environment in which young men find it more beneficial to simply opt out of couple-dom entirely.

    Suzanne Venker’s article, “The War on Men,” which appeared on the website of Fox News in late November, has become a lodestone for feminist writers who have attacked her position that the institution of marriage is threatened, not enhanced, by the supposed gains of the feminist movement over the last 50 years.

    “Where have all the good (meaning marriageable) men gone?” is a question much talked about lately in the secular media, Venker says, but her answer, backed up by statistics, is not to the liking of mainstream commentators influenced by feminism.

    She points out that for the first time in US history, the number of women in the workforce has surpassed the number of men, while more women than men are acquiring university degrees.

    “The problem? This new phenomenon has changed the dance between men and women,” Venker wrote. With feminism pushing them out of their traditional role of breadwinner, protector and provider – and divorce laws increasingly creating a dangerously precarious financial prospect for the men cut loose from marriage – men are simply no longer finding any benefit in it.

    As a writer and researcher into the trends of marriage and relationships, Venker said, she has “accidentally stumbled upon a subculture” of men who say “in no uncertain terms, that they’re never getting married.”

    “When I ask them why, the answer is always the same: women aren’t women anymore.” Feminism, which teaches women to think of men as the enemy, has made women “angry” and “defensive, though often unknowingly.”

    “Now the men have nowhere to go. It is precisely this dynamic – women good/men bad – that has destroyed the relationship between the sexes. Yet somehow, men are still to blame when love goes awry.”

    “Men are tired,” Venker wrote. “Tired of being told there’s something fundamentally wrong with them. Tired of being told that if women aren’t happy, it’s men’s fault.”

    Feminism and the sɛҳuąƖ revolution have simply made marriage “obsolete” for women as a social and economic refuge, but this is a situation that should not be celebrated by feminists, Venker says.

    “It’s the women who lose. Not only are they saddled with the consequences of sex, by dismissing male nature they’re forever seeking a balanced life. The fact is, women need men’s linear career goals – they need men to pick up the slack at the office – in order to live the balanced life they seek.”

    A cross section of research data from the Pew Research Center for the last months of 2012 shows the alarming trends for marriage and child-bearing in the US. One report published in mid-December said that the latest census data showed “barely half” of all adults in the United States are currently married, a “record low”. Since 1960, the number of married adults has decreased from 72 percent to 51 today and the number of new marriages in the U.S. declined by five percent between 2009 and 2010.

    Moreover, the median age at first marriage continues to rise with women getting married the first time at 26.5 years and men at 28.7. The declines in marriage are “most dramatic” among young adults. Just 20 percent of those aged 18 to 29 are married, compared with 59 percent in 1960.

    “If current trends continue, the share of adults who are currently married will drop to below half within a few years,” the report said.

    Moreover, the link between marriage and childrearing has become disconnected in the minds of the so-called Millennial generation, those between 18 and 29. While 52 percent of Millennials say being a good parent is “one of the most important things” in life, just 30 per cent say the same about having a successful marriage, an attitudinal survey found.

    The gap, of 22 percentage points, between the value Millennials place on parenthood over marriage, was just 7 points in 1997. The research found that Millennials, many of whom are the children of divorce and single-parenthood themselves, are also less likely than their elders to say that a child needs both a father and mother at home, that single parenthood and unmarried couple parenthood are bad for society.


    The bolding is all my emphasis. . . what a world! what a world!

    Thank you Matthew for the sound advice.

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    « Reply #9 on: January 11, 2013, 11:19:05 AM »
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    So true.  Even those of us struggling to be real women and true to our Catholic calling....feminism has seeped into our minds.  It's a real challenge to detach from those worldly lies because we've been brainwashed to believe that being feminine and submissive is ABUSIVE.

    Fr. Pfeiffer uses a phrase to describe a trad Catholic woman who retains feminist ideology and behavior:  spiritual wife syndrome.  I hope he does a conference on this topic someday.  Souls and marriages might be saved.



    Not long ago, after trying to explain some of my thinking to a Catholic Charities counselor, she advised me to watch the movie "Not Without My Daughter"  which is based on a true story about a woman who goes to Iran with her Iranian husband who then keeps her there and abuses her and she can't leave him because the law their will allow him to keep the daughter.  

    She said this will make me thinking twice about extreme submission, dress codes etc. and why it hurts all women to promote these ideas and how it could endanger my daughter.

    I don't think I should watch it but I am not sure.  In college I read "The Complete Persepolis" and that was a similar story by an Iranian feminist.  

    If Fr. Pfeiffer every write about this topic, please share it with the board.  Right now I only have "ancient" sources from "men who lived in a different time."
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25

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    « Reply #10 on: January 11, 2013, 11:26:47 AM »
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  • That should say "ever writes."
    ~For we are saved by hope. But hope that is seen, is not hope. For what a man seeth, why doth he hope for? But if we hope for that which we see not, we wait for it with patience. ~ Romans 8:24-25


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    « Reply #11 on: January 11, 2013, 11:44:03 AM »
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    So true.  Even those of us struggling to be real women and true to our Catholic calling....feminism has seeped into our minds.  It's a real challenge to detach from those worldly lies because we've been brainwashed to believe that being feminine and submissive is ABUSIVE.

    Fr. Pfeiffer uses a phrase to describe a trad Catholic woman who retains feminist ideology and behavior:  spiritual wife syndrome.  I hope he does a conference on this topic someday.  Souls and marriages might be saved.



    Not long ago, after trying to explain some of my thinking to a Catholic Charities counselor, she advised me to watch the movie "Not Without My Daughter"  which is based on a true story about a woman who goes to Iran with her Iranian husband who then keeps her there and abuses her and she can't leave him because the law their will allow him to keep the daughter.  

    She said this will make me thinking twice about extreme submission, dress codes etc. and why it hurts all women to promote these ideas and how it could endanger my daughter.

    I don't think I should watch it but I am not sure.  In college I read "The Complete Persepolis" and that was a similar story by an Iranian feminist.  

    If Fr. Pfeiffer every write about this topic, please share it with the board.  Right now I only have "ancient" sources from "men who lived in a different time."


    Short answer: Don't watch it, and don't seek advice from such filthy-minded know-it-alls. It's the same story as with the feminists here, warning you about setting yourself up for abuse. Remember how quickly they turned on you?

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  • Exactly, Graham.

    You have stated the truth.

    Your post deserves to be re-read.
    Francis is an Antipope. Pray that God will grant us a good Pope and save the Church.
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  • PW, you cannot get good advice from counsellors.

    Even "Catholic" counsellors and psychiatrists will have corrupt ideas from Freud and Jung, etc.

    All this type of psychology is based on anti-Catholic thinking.

    Therefore, it can only do harm.

    Traditional Catholics should completely avoid "counselling" - it is deeply anti-Catholic.

    If anyone has problems, pray about them and ask a validly ordained traditional Catholic priest for guidance.
    Francis is an Antipope. Pray that God will grant us a good Pope and save the Church.
    I abjure and retract my schismatic support of the evil CMRI.Thuc condemned the Thuc nonbishops
    "Now, therefore, we declare, say, determine and pronounce that for every human creature it is necessary for salvation to be subject to the authority of the Roman Pontiff"-Pope Boniface VIII.
    If you think Francis is Pope,do you treat him like an Antipope?
    Pastor Aeternus, and the Council of Trent Sessions XXIII and XXIV

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    « Reply #14 on: January 11, 2013, 04:23:32 PM »
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  • Graham and Sede are correct, PW. Do not seek guidance from "Catholic" counselors regarding the roles of a man and woman in marriage, because odds are their advice will not be Carholic.
    Please ignore ALL of my posts. I was naive during my time posting on this forum and didn’t know any better. I retract and deeply regret any and all uncharitable or erroneous statements I ever made here.